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Selena Gomez

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On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Selena Gomez & Benny Blanco EXCLUSIVE: Their Love Story Like You’ve Never Heard Before

And here's my reasoning. I'm going to defend myself. I get very nervous around the producers watching me sing. Of course. It's just a very intimate thing for me. I feel like I need to sound a certain way or do whatever to make them feel And when I get to record with just me and my engineer and maybe someone I trust, I get more out of the experience.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Selena Gomez & Benny Blanco EXCLUSIVE: Their Love Story Like You’ve Never Heard Before

So I just was thinking, okay, well, maybe he'll stay for 10 minutes and we'll just talk for a second. And 10 minutes turned into like 30. Then he went to the other room and I finished recording and he stayed there. And then, yeah, this is too long.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Selena Gomez & Benny Blanco EXCLUSIVE: Their Love Story Like You’ve Never Heard Before

So I just was thinking, okay, well, maybe he'll stay for 10 minutes and we'll just talk for a second. And 10 minutes turned into like 30. Then he went to the other room and I finished recording and he stayed there. And then, yeah, this is too long.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Selena Gomez & Benny Blanco EXCLUSIVE: Their Love Story Like You’ve Never Heard Before

Which, by the way, no girl should really... Or anyone in their right mind to someone they would have a crush on do that. But we were talking about ugly photos. Because I always say I take the worst photos sometimes. And... He's like, oh, you said something. And I sent him the worst pictures of me, like in bed sick. And then, you know, me at weird photo shoots.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Selena Gomez & Benny Blanco EXCLUSIVE: Their Love Story Like You’ve Never Heard Before

Which, by the way, no girl should really... Or anyone in their right mind to someone they would have a crush on do that. But we were talking about ugly photos. Because I always say I take the worst photos sometimes. And... He's like, oh, you said something. And I sent him the worst pictures of me, like in bed sick. And then, you know, me at weird photo shoots.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Selena Gomez & Benny Blanco EXCLUSIVE: Their Love Story Like You’ve Never Heard Before

And now looking back on it, I'm just thinking, these are so weird.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Selena Gomez & Benny Blanco EXCLUSIVE: Their Love Story Like You’ve Never Heard Before

And now looking back on it, I'm just thinking, these are so weird.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Selena Gomez & Benny Blanco EXCLUSIVE: Their Love Story Like You’ve Never Heard Before

Yeah.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Selena Gomez & Benny Blanco EXCLUSIVE: Their Love Story Like You’ve Never Heard Before

Yeah.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Selena Gomez & Benny Blanco EXCLUSIVE: Their Love Story Like You’ve Never Heard Before

Well, because I didn't know that it was going to be... Like, maybe I thought it was just going to be flirting and not really anything else. Got it. But I really started to just, I don't know, fall for it.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Selena Gomez & Benny Blanco EXCLUSIVE: Their Love Story Like You’ve Never Heard Before

Well, because I didn't know that it was going to be... Like, maybe I thought it was just going to be flirting and not really anything else. Got it. But I really started to just, I don't know, fall for it.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Selena Gomez & Benny Blanco EXCLUSIVE: Their Love Story Like You’ve Never Heard Before

And I was like, and I was like, no, I said, if this was a date, I definitely would have dressed like a nicer. And he just kind of looked at me and I thought we were on a date.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Selena Gomez & Benny Blanco EXCLUSIVE: Their Love Story Like You’ve Never Heard Before

And I was like, and I was like, no, I said, if this was a date, I definitely would have dressed like a nicer. And he just kind of looked at me and I thought we were on a date.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Selena Gomez & Benny Blanco EXCLUSIVE: Their Love Story Like You’ve Never Heard Before

There wasn't any confidence. That's the scary part. I think that's when I recognized that I had some sort of feelings for him. Walking to his house or into his home to go to his friend's thing, I was very nervous. And I'm not normally like that unless it's like an event or something where it can be overwhelming. Oh, with anyone I talk to, I'm able to talk to people and I feel like I'm good at it.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Selena Gomez & Benny Blanco EXCLUSIVE: Their Love Story Like You’ve Never Heard Before

There wasn't any confidence. That's the scary part. I think that's when I recognized that I had some sort of feelings for him. Walking to his house or into his home to go to his friend's thing, I was very nervous. And I'm not normally like that unless it's like an event or something where it can be overwhelming. Oh, with anyone I talk to, I'm able to talk to people and I feel like I'm good at it.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Selena Gomez & Benny Blanco EXCLUSIVE: Their Love Story Like You’ve Never Heard Before

But I just felt like all these feelings. And then when we went out, I was laughing and I didn't feel like he wanted anything or there was weird motives. It's sad that people have to think that way, but I don't know. I felt this immediate safety and I was very pleased that I don't know. We were friends.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Selena Gomez & Benny Blanco EXCLUSIVE: Their Love Story Like You’ve Never Heard Before

But I just felt like all these feelings. And then when we went out, I was laughing and I didn't feel like he wanted anything or there was weird motives. It's sad that people have to think that way, but I don't know. I felt this immediate safety and I was very pleased that I don't know. We were friends.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Selena Gomez & Benny Blanco EXCLUSIVE: Their Love Story Like You’ve Never Heard Before

Well, I think first of all, making plans and trying to stick to them is silly because you don't know what's going to happen. And I can't believe that I get to marry my best friend. So, but yes, I think for me, I was genuinely set for, But it was once I let go of me just saying I want someone and I wish I had this and I wish I had that.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Selena Gomez & Benny Blanco EXCLUSIVE: Their Love Story Like You’ve Never Heard Before

Well, I think first of all, making plans and trying to stick to them is silly because you don't know what's going to happen. And I can't believe that I get to marry my best friend. So, but yes, I think for me, I was genuinely set for, But it was once I let go of me just saying I want someone and I wish I had this and I wish I had that.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Selena Gomez & Benny Blanco EXCLUSIVE: Their Love Story Like You’ve Never Heard Before

Instead, I changed my mind to I'm so lucky that I get to wake up and my family is healthy and I love spending time with my friends. And you know what? If it doesn't happen, I know that I've always wanted to be a mom. And, you know, so of course I kind of planned that out. I think it was because... When Benny looks at me, I don't think he sees anything but who I am. And that's very rare to find.