Seth Perler

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9,287 appearances 19 recordings 1 series first heard Nov 2017 last heard 14 Nov

Seth Perler’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.

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And where you're trying to get to is a place where they have mindsets that will work for him, that he will have mindsets that work.
So he wants to have a growth mindset, a mindset
said, you know what, I can do this and I I need to be more realistic about this and I'm not being honest with myself all the time.
So when when I'm trying to work with a kid like this, I have to really like I said earlier about building rapport, I have to build that rapport and get them to feel emotionally safe.
And it's very millimeter by millimeter in a case like this where a kid is so stuck.
So I really want to use that three to one rule.
I really want to help them understand their strengths.
I really want to give them ownership and buy in.
I really want to say to them, What what are your dreams?
What are your hopes?
Um and if they're super shut down, he might say, I don't have any.
I don't care.
You know, I don't I don't think about that stuff.
But I s then I would use wait time and really I wouldn't interrupt and I would just be like, Cool, tell me more.
Yeah, goals are stupid, blah blah blah.
Cool.
Tell me more.
And wait.
I I but I what I really want to do is get serious, you know, because I know that there is something in there that's important to them.
But I really want to create that emotional safety to say, I'm really listening to you.
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