Shade Zahrai

When I did the PhD, same thing.

I'm like, maybe I will feel like I'm enough when I do all this stuff.

No, I can guarantee you, you never feel like you're enough if you're trying to chase it.

Do you feel like you're enough today?

I am on the journey.

And because I know the importance of it, yes, I remind myself, enough doesn't mean that you are perfect.

It doesn't mean that you stop growing.

It just means that I acknowledge that I am a product of my past, but I'm not a prisoner to it.

I can keep learning and growing and developing.

And so I definitely know that intellectually.

Feeling it is a different thing.

So I still have issues like if I find out someone doesn't like me,

Oh my gosh, no, how can I win back their approval?

You know, just these little things.

But let me take you back to, okay, so early years of university, just started learning how to dance.

And our class would, we had class on a Monday night, so I was like a beginner very early on.

Actually, funny story there, because I had danced as a kid,

When I went and did beginner, I was so impatient.

I said, can I just pay you to do private lessons to do beginner, intermediate and advanced all at once?

And the instructor said, just come to all the classes.