Shade Zahrai

So once we recognize it like that, it takes the pressure off because we don't need to wait for that feeling to come.

We just trust ourselves first.

We call that trust big trust.

It's that deep inner unshakable conviction that, hey, I've got this even in the uncertainty.

Now, if we look at my own research, so I finished up a doctorate very recently.

I did a full deep dive over the last five years.

Thank you.

Really hard.

It's very difficult.

I'm sure.

Got there in the end.

Did a full deep dive, looked at over 50 years of research, conducted my own studies with over 4,000 people.

And what we found, and actually this was really similar to a lot of my experiences when I've been coaching thousands of people, when I've been training, we have 7 million students on LinkedIn learning.

So we're constantly paying attention to what they're telling us, what the experiences are.

A lot of what we do is also work with leaders in Fortune 500s.

So we have a pretty good sample size of people that allows us to determine certain patterns.

And here is what I have found consistently is happening.

You will find people who are able to succeed, achieve their goals, achieve their wellness goals, their career goals, their performance goals.

And then you have others who want to, but they don't.

There's something that holds them back.