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Shade Zahrai

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The Genius Life
544: The #1 Science-Backed Confidence Hack Nobody Teaches | Shade Zahrai, PhD

Now, the other thing is when you are meeting someone new and it could be anywhere, it could be at the gym.

The Genius Life
544: The #1 Science-Backed Confidence Hack Nobody Teaches | Shade Zahrai, PhD

It could be at work.

The Genius Life
544: The #1 Science-Backed Confidence Hack Nobody Teaches | Shade Zahrai, PhD

It could be business environment.

The Genius Life
544: The #1 Science-Backed Confidence Hack Nobody Teaches | Shade Zahrai, PhD

The very first thing they're going to notice.

The Genius Life
544: The #1 Science-Backed Confidence Hack Nobody Teaches | Shade Zahrai, PhD

Okay.

The Genius Life
544: The #1 Science-Backed Confidence Hack Nobody Teaches | Shade Zahrai, PhD

Let's role play this.

The Genius Life
544: The #1 Science-Backed Confidence Hack Nobody Teaches | Shade Zahrai, PhD

So Max, I'm on the other side of a room.

The Genius Life
544: The #1 Science-Backed Confidence Hack Nobody Teaches | Shade Zahrai, PhD

You've just come to a networking event.

The Genius Life
544: The #1 Science-Backed Confidence Hack Nobody Teaches | Shade Zahrai, PhD

What's the first thing you notice about me?

The Genius Life
544: The #1 Science-Backed Confidence Hack Nobody Teaches | Shade Zahrai, PhD

Like we're 20 meters away.

The Genius Life
544: The #1 Science-Backed Confidence Hack Nobody Teaches | Shade Zahrai, PhD

Yeah, yeah, exactly.

The Genius Life
544: The #1 Science-Backed Confidence Hack Nobody Teaches | Shade Zahrai, PhD

So it's really, and mainly it's dress because you may not even be able to make out someone's face yet.

The Genius Life
544: The #1 Science-Backed Confidence Hack Nobody Teaches | Shade Zahrai, PhD

So it's just physical appearance, right?

The Genius Life
544: The #1 Science-Backed Confidence Hack Nobody Teaches | Shade Zahrai, PhD

In terms of what we're wearing.

The Genius Life
544: The #1 Science-Backed Confidence Hack Nobody Teaches | Shade Zahrai, PhD

So I always say, don't wear anything.

The Genius Life
544: The #1 Science-Backed Confidence Hack Nobody Teaches | Shade Zahrai, PhD

Okay, this obviously is contextual.

The Genius Life
544: The #1 Science-Backed Confidence Hack Nobody Teaches | Shade Zahrai, PhD

So it entirely depends on whether you're trying to elevate credibility in this situation.

The Genius Life
544: The #1 Science-Backed Confidence Hack Nobody Teaches | Shade Zahrai, PhD

If you are, you want to dress in a way that doesn't make you stand out for the wrong reasons.

The Genius Life
544: The #1 Science-Backed Confidence Hack Nobody Teaches | Shade Zahrai, PhD

You don't want to distract someone from your value by wearing something that is distracting.

The Genius Life
544: The #1 Science-Backed Confidence Hack Nobody Teaches | Shade Zahrai, PhD

That differs depending on where you are in your journey.