Shaka Senghor

and to still be able to love that person and not just cut them off and be like, move on.

And not just go back to that old way of being.

Yeah, where they no longer exist, right?

And so that is the toughest part of anything else that's been hard is like the toughest part has been that.

And how I've, you know, saw for it is like, you know, one, being a mentor to young people, being a dad, being a husband, you know,

Having my little, I have little neighbors.

They're like, they're twins.

They're like three.

And then the oldest boy is like five.

And they love me.

I think it's the hair, but they like, if I'm outside and they see me and they just run up and they're like, you know.

And so it's those things that I embrace and I intentionally seek out to kind of soften that part of me.

But that's tough.

You know, it's tough to like let that go.

I think for me, it's, it's been, um, Dr. Safali.

She's great.

Yeah.

Her, her book on conscious parenting.

She's great.

And one of the things that she just talked about is like, your children aren't your children, right?