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Shane Parrish

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The One You Feed | Personal Growth, Emotional Resilience & Purpose
Why Your Default Behaviors Are Sabotaging You (And How to Outsmart Them) | Shane Parrish

And so a good position means you're never forced by circumstances to do something you don't want to do.

The One You Feed | Personal Growth, Emotional Resilience & Purpose
Why Your Default Behaviors Are Sabotaging You (And How to Outsmart Them) | Shane Parrish

So if we take this and we apply it to decision making, well, how does that impact you?

The One You Feed | Personal Growth, Emotional Resilience & Purpose
Why Your Default Behaviors Are Sabotaging You (And How to Outsmart Them) | Shane Parrish

Well, all the stuff that we learn about decision making is how to be rational, how to make the best choice in the moment.

The One You Feed | Personal Growth, Emotional Resilience & Purpose
Why Your Default Behaviors Are Sabotaging You (And How to Outsmart Them) | Shane Parrish

But if your choices are all bad, it doesn't matter that you pick the best of the bad choices, right?

The One You Feed | Personal Growth, Emotional Resilience & Purpose
Why Your Default Behaviors Are Sabotaging You (And How to Outsmart Them) | Shane Parrish

You don't want to be in a situation.

The One You Feed | Personal Growth, Emotional Resilience & Purpose
Why Your Default Behaviors Are Sabotaging You (And How to Outsmart Them) | Shane Parrish

How do I avoid this situation?

The One You Feed | Personal Growth, Emotional Resilience & Purpose
Why Your Default Behaviors Are Sabotaging You (And How to Outsmart Them) | Shane Parrish

I don't put myself in a position where I'm consistently making good decisions.

The One You Feed | Personal Growth, Emotional Resilience & Purpose
Why Your Default Behaviors Are Sabotaging You (And How to Outsmart Them) | Shane Parrish

And often the people who are right a lot are just people that they're not

The One You Feed | Personal Growth, Emotional Resilience & Purpose
Why Your Default Behaviors Are Sabotaging You (And How to Outsmart Them) | Shane Parrish

predicting what the future is.

The One You Feed | Personal Growth, Emotional Resilience & Purpose
Why Your Default Behaviors Are Sabotaging You (And How to Outsmart Them) | Shane Parrish

They're positioning themselves for multiple possible futures.

The One You Feed | Personal Growth, Emotional Resilience & Purpose
Why Your Default Behaviors Are Sabotaging You (And How to Outsmart Them) | Shane Parrish

And it's such a powerful sort of concept, right?

The One You Feed | Personal Growth, Emotional Resilience & Purpose
Why Your Default Behaviors Are Sabotaging You (And How to Outsmart Them) | Shane Parrish

So we talked about Buffett.

The One You Feed | Personal Growth, Emotional Resilience & Purpose
Why Your Default Behaviors Are Sabotaging You (And How to Outsmart Them) | Shane Parrish

We talked about a more practical example, maybe with my kids.

The One You Feed | Personal Growth, Emotional Resilience & Purpose
Why Your Default Behaviors Are Sabotaging You (And How to Outsmart Them) | Shane Parrish

is what it means to do your best, right?

The One You Feed | Personal Growth, Emotional Resilience & Purpose
Why Your Default Behaviors Are Sabotaging You (And How to Outsmart Them) | Shane Parrish

Parents are listening, you have kids, your kids come home, they have a bad score on their test and they said, I did my best.

The One You Feed | Personal Growth, Emotional Resilience & Purpose
Why Your Default Behaviors Are Sabotaging You (And How to Outsmart Them) | Shane Parrish

And what they mean in that moment was I did my best in the hour that I sat down for my test.

The One You Feed | Personal Growth, Emotional Resilience & Purpose
Why Your Default Behaviors Are Sabotaging You (And How to Outsmart Them) | Shane Parrish

What they don't mean is that they put themselves in a position to be successful.

The One You Feed | Personal Growth, Emotional Resilience & Purpose
Why Your Default Behaviors Are Sabotaging You (And How to Outsmart Them) | Shane Parrish

And so I've defined this with my kids as, you know, you are in a position for success before you even take the test.

The One You Feed | Personal Growth, Emotional Resilience & Purpose
Why Your Default Behaviors Are Sabotaging You (And How to Outsmart Them) | Shane Parrish

It's the moment when you sit down, have I done all the things I control?

The One You Feed | Personal Growth, Emotional Resilience & Purpose
Why Your Default Behaviors Are Sabotaging You (And How to Outsmart Them) | Shane Parrish

You think about Tom Brady or another athlete, you know, they put themselves in a position all week.