Shannon Curry

They were asking each other questions about how their partner felt with no agenda, no attempt to sort of be like,

Well, do you think you're feeling that way because, which straight couples do all the time, you just see this humility and openness?

It's lovely, right?

No, it's not.

And that's great news.

So we actually know that the closer you feel to your partner.

So if, I mean, you've talked a lot about beauty.

And

You can ignite that beauty, that interest, right?

So when you're falling in love, it's usually that a person is sort of a mystery to you and you're uncovering these layers that you find really appealing.

There are continual layers that you can uncover with your partner over time.

I don't think we realize that.

I think we get complacent and we think we've had every conversation imaginable.

What else are they going to do to surprise me?

But we don't know the questions to be asking.

One of my favorite questions, I like turning these conversations kind of into a quiz because I get bored easily.

So rather than just asking an open-ended question, there's a way you can do this with your partner where it's sort of like the dating game.

Like, what is my as of yet fondest but unrealized life dream?

And see if your partner knows.

You might not even know.