Shar Jossell
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first heard May 2025
last heard 2 Sep
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And so I think that, like I said, as it pertains to men, like the men who are getting their manicures, the men who are unafraid to maybe go blonde with their fades, or the men who throw on a kilt or a skirt.
Like literally the Dennis Rodmans, the Andre 3000s, like.
You have to define what manhood and masculinity is for you.
Otherwise, you're gonna drive yourself crazy because it is a bottomless pit.
There will always be, you don't know who you are within this whole gender conversation or how you wanna show up.
You're going to be second guessing yourself every time a new TikTok is released, every 30 minutes about this topic.
My mind went to violence.
My men mind went to violence and massage noir and trans massage noir and men not necessarily being raised in environments that encourage them to really express any other emotion other than anger and rage.
And then they don't know where to put that or what to do with it, because that is how a lot of times certain pockets of our community define what masculinity or manhood.
It is like
And as a result, we get domestic violence.
As a result, we get harm done to all women, cis and trans women within the black community.
And I think that it is a direct result of how ugly things can get when black men in particular are over policed in the ways in which they show up.
It's Been a Minute · Age gaps & wage gaps: unpacking our Belichick-Hudson obsession · 30 May 2025
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Hello, Brittany.
My love language. Ashar, you look so purple. No, because it's really a little bit of all of them. But I love the acts of service because I've fallen for lovely and fluffy words. But I need the actions. You know, love is an action word, right? So it would be acts of service.
I think this relationship is catching everyone's attention because it is one of those things that's a tale as old as time. Like age gaps aren't anything new, right? I think of David Foster and Catherine McPhee. I think that this particular relationship is capturing the public's
interest because she's so visible and involved in Bill Belichick's public facing life and seemingly his everyday like comings and goings. And I think that's what's got everybody captivated by this.
What do you think, Char? The same. And I think that it's okay. I think that if both of them have their mental faculties about them and they're both consenting and willing participants, who are we to question? Who are we to question if they both are of sound mind and, you know, pursuing whatever version of whatever this relationship might be?
I think what sets her apart is a little bit of both. It's blazing a new path and walking a path that's already kind of been made for her. I think that because she is so public-facing, that adds to the conversation. And, you know, we can't have this conversation without acknowledging what a lot of, like, the manosphere...
influencers and the Joe Rogans and the conversations that they're kind of really platforming around this idea, around this concept of like young men aren't able to find true love because women are out to get you and they want what you.
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