Sharay Punisher Hayes

It's anxiety-based, right?

It's not, hey, it's just mental.

It's going into every situation worried, am I going to fail?

Is it going to work?

If I put this condom on, will that work?

You know what I'm saying?

These are the things that get in your mind that cause doubt.

So once you realize where the doubt is coming from and know that you're OK physically, then you can start adjusting that on your own.

But if you're dependent on a pill or dependent on a testosterone booster or whatever it is that you told yourself you need, then there's no way you can adjust your mind because you're already per se addicted or reliant on something outside of yourself.

Absolutely, man.

And not just not just the livelihood of it.

It was affecting my my personal life.

Right.

Because being a stripper came with pressure.

Right.

When when when women see you in this light, you're supposed to be the best sex you ever had.

You know what I'm saying?

Like, oh, my God, the stripper, you see the moves and all that.

And so you're going to walk into that situation with added pressure because it got to live up to the punisher, right?

Live up to the hype.