Sharay Punisher Hayes

So that would create the anxiety that is like, well, I don't want to fall off.

So let me pop this pill.

Let me do these things.

And I just had to really learn that it's not the pills themselves.

that or it's not the pills are not the end all be all it's definitely an issue with how I project myself sexually and if I if I think failure then I'm gonna experience failure yeah you know yeah because you can't be walking around soft on the job right that ain't gonna work bro you know man so you what age did you get into that

Yeah, not even, actually, yep, I came home from a semester and never went back.

Wow.

Yeah, never went back, and I started the dancing thing or whatever as a side hustle, and then it just became the main thing for the last 30 years.

Damn.

I'm still doing it, man.

But not as a main thing, like I run a company that we do events every weekend.

But if it's a scenario where we're short guys or whatever, I'll still jump up there.

The money's nice, man.

The money's nice.

But it's a tradition thing, right?

I won't say the money's nice for, let's say, a guy that's an individual dancer just running around.

That's a hustle.

Once you realize men are going to get married, they're going to have a bachelor party, so the ladies want a bachelorette.

If you can set up a circumstance where they can come out and celebrate, there's always a market for that.

Once you tap into it, it's consistent.