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Sharay Hayes: Why Older Rich Men Secretly Hire Younger Guys for Their Wives | DSH #1690
19 Dec 2025
Chapter 1: Why do older rich men hire younger men for their wives?
Super common for guys to hire other dudes to sleep with their girlfriend.
Chapter 2: What personal experiences motivated Sharay Hayes to write his book?
At like the elite level, you're saying?
Chapter 3: How does anxiety contribute to erectile dysfunction in men?
Usually in a range of a minimum, what appears to be 20 years older than this.
Chapter 4: Why are pills often ineffective for treating erectile dysfunction?
So you get this guy that maybe he met this woman at, he was 45 and she was 20.
Chapter 5: What is the difference between total testosterone and free testosterone?
Now they've been together 15 years and she's 40, which women go into the height of their...
school desires, late thirties, mid forties.
Chapter 6: How do diet and hormones impact male libido?
And now this guy's 60 years old and he's like, can't keep up. So a lot of these guys will go out and then hire guys to supplement, but it's under my control.
All right, guys, we got Sheree Hayes here today. Got the book here. I just started it. It's a very interesting book, man. Congrats on becoming an author, first of all.
Thank you, man. I appreciate it, man.
Yeah, was it a pretty tough process to get this thing to the finish line?
Chapter 7: What insights did Sharay Hayes provide about the Diddy/Cassie trial?
Not once when I decided to do the work. I tried to start the route with the ghostwriters and stuff like that where I was just going to tell a story and it was going to get it down. But the stories are so personal and my real story, so I had to just write it myself. And once I decided to, I really probably got it out and done in probably about two weeks. Oh, wow. Or not, man.
because everything was here. Once I got the format, I was able to get it down pretty easy.
Was it a big weight lifted off your shoulders finally being able to tell some of this stuff for you?
I won't say weight lifted over my shoulders because it was an epiphany, right? I just know I went through trying to solve the erectile dysfunction issue, which was, that was killing me, right? And once I got it solved and figured out, and started helping other people, it became like an epiphany, like, yo, I got to get this information out here because everybody's going the wrong route.
Chapter 8: How should men approach sexual performance and mental health?
They're trying to solve it the wrong way. So it's more of a gratification, right? Because I know it's valuable information and it's reaching people now. So it's more of a fulfilling thing.
It's needed, man. The statistics on ED these days are pretty absurd.
It is absurd. And the statistic that threw me off the most was over 50% of the cases are mental. Really? There was nothing wrong with me physically. Holy crap.
So is that like a trauma thing maybe?
It's an anxiety-based thing. So people don't realize is when you experience anxiety, you release a hormone called cortisol. Cortisol restricts your blood vessels. So while you're taking Viagra, Cialis, all these pills to open up your blood vessels... then anxiety is giving you a completely different effect. And it's stronger than the pills. But nobody's discussing this, right?
So if you're having anxiety-based, mental-based, and you grab a pill, you're using a physical fix to a mental issue. And then you're going to just keep hitting the wall. But if nobody tells you this, you're going to say it's the pill. So then you try a different pill. Then you try a gel. Then you try a, you know what I'm saying? You try a honey pack, right? You try in all these different things.
But the issue is really here.
That's so nuts because you think the pill would be stronger than the mind.
Absolutely not, man. Wow. Nothing outweighs the mind. And that's why it's funny. You'll have guys who are struggling with ED. And this used to happen to me. I would have a girl by, struggle, right, because of the mental situation. And then let's say things don't work out. And then two hours later, I'm watching SportsCenter with, like, the boner of life. You know what I'm saying?
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