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Sharna Burgess

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Money Rehab with Nicole Lapin
Say “I Do” To a Joint Bank Account? Sharna Burgess on Wedding Planning and Financial Planning

It really goes a long way.

Money Rehab with Nicole Lapin
Say “I Do” To a Joint Bank Account? Sharna Burgess on Wedding Planning and Financial Planning

Yeah. And I don't know what he has personally. Well, I know Ish, but I don't look at it. Do you know what I mean? That's his business. I have my business. We're very transparent with each other. If anyone's having a month or two where it's like things are a little tighter this month or whatever, we'll be open with each other. But I'm not on top of his finances and he's not on top of mine.

Money Rehab with Nicole Lapin
Say “I Do” To a Joint Bank Account? Sharna Burgess on Wedding Planning and Financial Planning

Yeah. And I don't know what he has personally. Well, I know Ish, but I don't look at it. Do you know what I mean? That's his business. I have my business. We're very transparent with each other. If anyone's having a month or two where it's like things are a little tighter this month or whatever, we'll be open with each other. But I'm not on top of his finances and he's not on top of mine.

Money Rehab with Nicole Lapin
Say “I Do” To a Joint Bank Account? Sharna Burgess on Wedding Planning and Financial Planning

Yeah. And I don't know what he has personally. Well, I know Ish, but I don't look at it. Do you know what I mean? That's his business. I have my business. We're very transparent with each other. If anyone's having a month or two where it's like things are a little tighter this month or whatever, we'll be open with each other. But I'm not on top of his finances and he's not on top of mine.

Money Rehab with Nicole Lapin
Say “I Do” To a Joint Bank Account? Sharna Burgess on Wedding Planning and Financial Planning

We have a lorry for that, but I don't want to be either. I think for me, I have trauma with it because I watched it destroy my mom and dad. My dad had a business. My mom tried to help because she was an accountant and it just, it didn't work. The money conversations in the house were really rough. So I also have an aversion to knowing too much about what's going on with him.

Money Rehab with Nicole Lapin
Say “I Do” To a Joint Bank Account? Sharna Burgess on Wedding Planning and Financial Planning

We have a lorry for that, but I don't want to be either. I think for me, I have trauma with it because I watched it destroy my mom and dad. My dad had a business. My mom tried to help because she was an accountant and it just, it didn't work. The money conversations in the house were really rough. So I also have an aversion to knowing too much about what's going on with him.

Money Rehab with Nicole Lapin
Say “I Do” To a Joint Bank Account? Sharna Burgess on Wedding Planning and Financial Planning

We have a lorry for that, but I don't want to be either. I think for me, I have trauma with it because I watched it destroy my mom and dad. My dad had a business. My mom tried to help because she was an accountant and it just, it didn't work. The money conversations in the house were really rough. So I also have an aversion to knowing too much about what's going on with him.

Money Rehab with Nicole Lapin
Say “I Do” To a Joint Bank Account? Sharna Burgess on Wedding Planning and Financial Planning

I just need to know where solid or if we're on rocky ground and like where we're at, but I don't want to know. I don't want him to feel like he has to tell me. And I don't want to feel like I have to check in on it all the time. Because I feel like it's one of those things.

Money Rehab with Nicole Lapin
Say “I Do” To a Joint Bank Account? Sharna Burgess on Wedding Planning and Financial Planning

I just need to know where solid or if we're on rocky ground and like where we're at, but I don't want to know. I don't want him to feel like he has to tell me. And I don't want to feel like I have to check in on it all the time. Because I feel like it's one of those things.

Money Rehab with Nicole Lapin
Say “I Do” To a Joint Bank Account? Sharna Burgess on Wedding Planning and Financial Planning

I just need to know where solid or if we're on rocky ground and like where we're at, but I don't want to know. I don't want him to feel like he has to tell me. And I don't want to feel like I have to check in on it all the time. Because I feel like it's one of those things.

Money Rehab with Nicole Lapin
Say “I Do” To a Joint Bank Account? Sharna Burgess on Wedding Planning and Financial Planning

Once you unlock your boyfriend's phone and you start going through his stuff, you'll unlock it every week to go through his stuff. And I don't want to do that to someone's personal business. I just want transparency if you're having a hard time and let me know what you need from me to assist with that and vice versa.

Money Rehab with Nicole Lapin
Say “I Do” To a Joint Bank Account? Sharna Burgess on Wedding Planning and Financial Planning

Once you unlock your boyfriend's phone and you start going through his stuff, you'll unlock it every week to go through his stuff. And I don't want to do that to someone's personal business. I just want transparency if you're having a hard time and let me know what you need from me to assist with that and vice versa.

Money Rehab with Nicole Lapin
Say “I Do” To a Joint Bank Account? Sharna Burgess on Wedding Planning and Financial Planning

Once you unlock your boyfriend's phone and you start going through his stuff, you'll unlock it every week to go through his stuff. And I don't want to do that to someone's personal business. I just want transparency if you're having a hard time and let me know what you need from me to assist with that and vice versa.

Money Rehab with Nicole Lapin
Say “I Do” To a Joint Bank Account? Sharna Burgess on Wedding Planning and Financial Planning

Yeah.

Money Rehab with Nicole Lapin
Say “I Do” To a Joint Bank Account? Sharna Burgess on Wedding Planning and Financial Planning

Yeah.

Money Rehab with Nicole Lapin
Say “I Do” To a Joint Bank Account? Sharna Burgess on Wedding Planning and Financial Planning

Yeah.

Money Rehab with Nicole Lapin
Say “I Do” To a Joint Bank Account? Sharna Burgess on Wedding Planning and Financial Planning

Over finances? Over many things. They honestly weren't the greatest match in the world. They stayed together for me. And so all the things went wrong with them. And it was a pretty tumultuous household. But one of the big things was money. My dad was terrible with it. terrible with spending on convenience and some of the little habits that I'd picked up.

Money Rehab with Nicole Lapin
Say “I Do” To a Joint Bank Account? Sharna Burgess on Wedding Planning and Financial Planning

Over finances? Over many things. They honestly weren't the greatest match in the world. They stayed together for me. And so all the things went wrong with them. And it was a pretty tumultuous household. But one of the big things was money. My dad was terrible with it. terrible with spending on convenience and some of the little habits that I'd picked up.

Money Rehab with Nicole Lapin
Say “I Do” To a Joint Bank Account? Sharna Burgess on Wedding Planning and Financial Planning

Over finances? Over many things. They honestly weren't the greatest match in the world. They stayed together for me. And so all the things went wrong with them. And it was a pretty tumultuous household. But one of the big things was money. My dad was terrible with it. terrible with spending on convenience and some of the little habits that I'd picked up.

Money Rehab with Nicole Lapin
Say “I Do” To a Joint Bank Account? Sharna Burgess on Wedding Planning and Financial Planning

But he also had this idea of wanting to appear that he had more money than he did. So it was the house that we rented. It was the cars that we drove. It was all the things that he'd spend money on luxury things to appear more wealthy than he was. But the crazy thing was that I did pick up from him was he earned so much money. He just spent it all and didn't live within his means.