Shawn French

Let's dive deeper into that, you know, for the people listening, because I think that resonates, right?

And I, and I can only, I can only like, for me, there's certain defaults that we have in our home, right?

If it's a meal, I'm the default parent.

I make all the meals and I enjoy doing it.

If it's something for the kids like spirit week, Jackie's the default parent, right?

So, but while it works sometimes, it's hard to break away from that.

Let's go into that default parent because, you know, I know there's a lot of people out there thinking like, wow, why do I have to be the default for this?

And there's some dangers there too, I think.

But, you know, if it's understood and spoken about, then it should be understood and it should flow, you know, much easier.

What is your definition of a default parent?

Oh, I mean, I can only speak on mine and it's,

So fluid.

It's just like, my wife can ask me, Hey, what do you have tomorrow?

At that time, it could be nothing.

And then, and then 30 minutes later I could have three or four different things.

Right.

So yeah, that's difficult.

Right.

Yeah, exactly.

The thing that I'm really loving, Nicole, is the way you've been able to not just explain, but implement real systems into the home.