Shawn (Sean) Ryan

You know, sometimes it comes back, sometimes it doesn't come back and things just get totally out of whack.

You know, why does that happen in most couples?

Yeah.

Well, first of all, I just wanna- Or does it happen in most couples?

Does it happen in all couples?

Can I, before we go too far into this, I just have a couple of theories that, uh, that, that, so when you were saying your husband and you were sitting on the couch eating takeout again, that to me, like,

If I eat like shit, it's not happening.

If I don't feel good, it's not happening.

That's not just me.

That's my wife, too.

If we gorge on fast food, takeout, pizza, pretty much anything, and then we feel like shit by the end of the night, it's like you don't feel – I don't feel comfortable in my own skin, so it's just not going to happen.

Yeah.

Nice.

Nice.

Great suggestion.

And then my other theory is that people just eventually just –

I don't know any other way to say it.

They just let themselves go.

Yeah.

You know, and, and it's in, in, in, I mean, we talk about this a lot with the, with the, with like people like Dr. Gabrielle Lyons and, you know, a lot of the other doctors that I've had, but, you know, and not in a, in like a, in a sexual way, but you know, that, that,