Shayne Topp

I feel like as a man, I feel like any man who's dumb enough to come between a woman and cheese, you're going to get broken up with.

You simply are fighting a force.

Scientists have studied this and they're like, this is a force stronger than the ocean, solar waves and shit.

They're just like, you can't stop this.

okay update july 3rd 2024 two days later hey guys i hope i'm doing this update thing right i've never made one before so i'm just trying to copy what other people in this sub have done i was debating posting this update or not but seeing just how many people saw it and became invested in my snacking made me want to give anyone who is still interested a little bit of closure first of all i wanted to thank you all for your time spent with me

It's honestly a little overwhelming to see how many people took a break from what I assume are very busy lives to give me advice and support.

I think it's very beautiful how so many people in so many different places can come together and give some love to people who need it.

Secondly, I have a short and savory update.

Get it?

Because I couldn't leave you guys hanging.

The morning after I posted... Hanging like balls.

Like balls.

The morning after I posted, me and my boyfriend talked out this entire issue and he ended up explaining why his mind immediately went to a place of sexualizing something that has no implications.

I left this out of my original post because it felt unrelated, even though in hindsight it was obvious.

But there was an issue with infidelity in his previous relationship.

I didn't know the details of what happened and never tried to bring it up because I didn't want to upset him.

That was my mistake, though, because he is still struggling with insecurities and felt unsure if he could tell me about it.

Both of us were lacking communication skills, but we ended up clearing the air and I found out both why his last relationship ended and why seeing me eat cheese balls upset him.

All I knew previously was that he had a serious relationship with his ex-girlfriend and they broke up because she cheated on him.

Now, he let me know that he found out about the incident because the person she cheated with sent him a video of her eating another man's cheese balls.