Shayne Topp

He told me that he feels like by now he should have gotten over it, but the betrayal stuck with him.

The new move in together has started to trigger his unresolved feelings and has given him new anxieties that our relationship might end the same way.

I think pairing that with the daily visual reminder through the cheese balls was a little too much for him.

I know many of you have very strong opinions about him and I'm sorry to disappoint, but I am not ready to let go of this relationship yet.

During our conversation, I let him know that I didn't like the direction that he was going with his ultimatum because it felt controlling and I told him I wouldn't tolerate another incident like this in the future.

Right now, I'm feeling very hopeful, and I think that knowing about his past will leave me better equipped to pave a better future with him.

Ooh.

Ooh.

Yeah.

In the communication.

I think that's always huge.

And he admitted the other possibility that we were considering.

I just guess I, yeah.

A very real place.

I mean, I'm very grateful that I cannot relate to someone like...

being cheated on and, and get like seeing, like seeing it being sent to any sort of footage or photos.

I'm like, and I've heard of people experiencing that.

And I'm like, that's a nightmare.

That's a nightmare.

That's going to stay with you forever.