Shekhar Natarajan

Why is that person getting infuriated by stuff which is

as small as someone would just brush it off, right?

So some amplification happens and not understanding that amplification and attributing your action back to that really causes the tension and you don't know when to walk away, when to stay and then you're caught in this freaking limbo that you can never get out.

You make it sound like such good fun.

And that's why I tell them, like, I'm not a psychologist.

And then you've got to backtrack.

How do you go out of a relationship and then come back into the relationship with trust?

What is the degree of compromise?

Is it depends on the tolerance limit of the person on the other side?

Because you don't want to silently have pain inflicted on you because you're a tolerant person.

No, no, I just wanted to ask you, because the question came to me because like, you know, what's the right boundary?

Like, you know, like how much do you take before you say no?

How did you become like a radio jockey?

Would you have regular visitors on the radio with the call-in doctor, please?

Yeah, yeah, yeah.

Would they come?

Because you cannot solve their problems in one day, you said, right?

That's your consulting service.

Yeah, attribution is the biggest problem.

Because you attribute your anger, your happiness, you always attribute your happiness to yourself and you attribute anger to others.