Sheryl Crow

uh that came along that i ever felt like i was gonna miss out on like all my decisions were so easy based on like i don't want to miss anything with my kids you know i've been at like every baseball game i've been you know i just don't there's not one thing i feel like i hate missing that but i really should be at my kids game there's just nothing you know i was talking to my therapist

And you'd have been in jail.

I have to say, you know...

I have my own belief system.

I don't believe, I believe your kids pick you.

I don't think you ever get the wrong kid.

I know that sounds really woo-woo.

But your kid picked you at this moment.

You're ready.

And you don't want to spend too much time overanalyzing why now?

Am I going to be this?

Am I going to be that?

Because then you miss out on the now.

And I mean, I literally sound like a self-help book.

But it took me forever to get to the place where

I was like open-armed and just like, okay, I may not get to be a mom.

I've loved a lot of amazing people and I've loved some other people too.

And that was where I got off.

And at which point I was like, okay, God, I'm just going to like get in the boat.

I'm going to start rowing.