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Sihame El Kaouakibi

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Chief Change Officer
#363 Sihame El Kaouakibi: Burnout, Bankruptcy, and the Beauty of Reinvention—Part One

And then the biggest lesson, of course, from a governance point of view, if you have companies or mandates, just quit before entering politics to avoid them being used against you. And the most beautiful lesson, I think, you are elected by the people. Okay. So even though they can maybe damage your reputation with misinformation and political campaigns, adversity, they cannot take your seat. Okay.

Chief Change Officer
#363 Sihame El Kaouakibi: Burnout, Bankruptcy, and the Beauty of Reinvention—Part One

And then the biggest lesson, of course, from a governance point of view, if you have companies or mandates, just quit before entering politics to avoid them being used against you. And the most beautiful lesson, I think, you are elected by the people. Okay. So even though they can maybe damage your reputation with misinformation and political campaigns, adversity, they cannot take your seat. Okay.

Chief Change Officer
#363 Sihame El Kaouakibi: Burnout, Bankruptcy, and the Beauty of Reinvention—Part One

It's the people chose you. Don't ever forget that and try to show up, be courageous. But if the environment is too toxic. Is it worth it? If you're quite isolated, especially as people who stand for change, sometimes it's not worth it.

Chief Change Officer
#363 Sihame El Kaouakibi: Burnout, Bankruptcy, and the Beauty of Reinvention—Part One

It's the people chose you. Don't ever forget that and try to show up, be courageous. But if the environment is too toxic. Is it worth it? If you're quite isolated, especially as people who stand for change, sometimes it's not worth it.

Chief Change Officer
#363 Sihame El Kaouakibi: Burnout, Bankruptcy, and the Beauty of Reinvention—Part One

You still need to prioritize yourself, self-care, and certainly if you have a family you're accountable for, you need to put yourself in them first, because otherwise you cannot fight for the people. That's just the thing, and sometimes I think it's about timing. For me, it wasn't the right timing. I made an ego-driven decision and it was a messiah complex. And, of course, belief.

Chief Change Officer
#363 Sihame El Kaouakibi: Burnout, Bankruptcy, and the Beauty of Reinvention—Part One

You still need to prioritize yourself, self-care, and certainly if you have a family you're accountable for, you need to put yourself in them first, because otherwise you cannot fight for the people. That's just the thing, and sometimes I think it's about timing. For me, it wasn't the right timing. I made an ego-driven decision and it was a messiah complex. And, of course, belief.

Chief Change Officer
#363 Sihame El Kaouakibi: Burnout, Bankruptcy, and the Beauty of Reinvention—Part One

I had everything, like potential and talent, to do something, to drive change. Otherwise, there was no focus on keeping from political opponents. So that I know. But it was too soon, too early, without a foundation, a community standing next to me, beside me, standing for this bigger project. And that's okay. It's a hard lesson learned. It's And my motivation was legit.

Chief Change Officer
#363 Sihame El Kaouakibi: Burnout, Bankruptcy, and the Beauty of Reinvention—Part One

I had everything, like potential and talent, to do something, to drive change. Otherwise, there was no focus on keeping from political opponents. So that I know. But it was too soon, too early, without a foundation, a community standing next to me, beside me, standing for this bigger project. And that's okay. It's a hard lesson learned. It's And my motivation was legit.

Chief Change Officer
#363 Sihame El Kaouakibi: Burnout, Bankruptcy, and the Beauty of Reinvention—Part One

And yeah, all the rest is trying to keep driving change as an advocate for change, as an entrepreneur, as an impact consultant. That's actually what I do better. So that's my position now.

Chief Change Officer
#363 Sihame El Kaouakibi: Burnout, Bankruptcy, and the Beauty of Reinvention—Part One

And yeah, all the rest is trying to keep driving change as an advocate for change, as an entrepreneur, as an impact consultant. That's actually what I do better. So that's my position now.

Chief Change Officer
#363 Sihame El Kaouakibi: Burnout, Bankruptcy, and the Beauty of Reinvention—Part One

Beautiful. Yeah, I can relate. I can relate. The environment is everything. If you feel you're surviving instead of thriving, you need to quit. You need to leave. Because a lot of women that I guide now, some of them really start, they're really these beautiful, amazing women, high positions.

Chief Change Officer
#363 Sihame El Kaouakibi: Burnout, Bankruptcy, and the Beauty of Reinvention—Part One

Beautiful. Yeah, I can relate. I can relate. The environment is everything. If you feel you're surviving instead of thriving, you need to quit. You need to leave. Because a lot of women that I guide now, some of them really start, they're really these beautiful, amazing women, high positions.

Chief Change Officer
#363 Sihame El Kaouakibi: Burnout, Bankruptcy, and the Beauty of Reinvention—Part One

And they're still sometimes like in this environment with these political games, toxic leadership, and they stay. I'm like, okay, what's the plan? And the strange thing is that they cling, they're just holding this situation, holding... It's holding them back. They're just stuck. And sometimes it's better to accept the rejection than feeling stuck, I think.

Chief Change Officer
#363 Sihame El Kaouakibi: Burnout, Bankruptcy, and the Beauty of Reinvention—Part One

And they're still sometimes like in this environment with these political games, toxic leadership, and they stay. I'm like, okay, what's the plan? And the strange thing is that they cling, they're just holding this situation, holding... It's holding them back. They're just stuck. And sometimes it's better to accept the rejection than feeling stuck, I think.

Chief Change Officer
#363 Sihame El Kaouakibi: Burnout, Bankruptcy, and the Beauty of Reinvention—Part One

So if the environment, the toxic environment feels like a rejection, maybe it's better. Rejection can be redirection and it's sometimes better to just leave. And I think the most liberating decision can be to move on. And like you said, you need to find your tribe, you need to find your environment so you can try. But it's confronting, right? Being rejected. Why is someone toxic?

Chief Change Officer
#363 Sihame El Kaouakibi: Burnout, Bankruptcy, and the Beauty of Reinvention—Part One

So if the environment, the toxic environment feels like a rejection, maybe it's better. Rejection can be redirection and it's sometimes better to just leave. And I think the most liberating decision can be to move on. And like you said, you need to find your tribe, you need to find your environment so you can try. But it's confronting, right? Being rejected. Why is someone toxic?

Chief Change Officer
#363 Sihame El Kaouakibi: Burnout, Bankruptcy, and the Beauty of Reinvention—Part One

It's like, for example, for women. Of course, more and more women go into leadership positions. They're needed, okay? And feminine leadership is actually based on empathy, emotional intelligence, also inclusivity. And... I know that, and I was one of them, that it's no longer true that women need to like mimic masculine or male leaders. No.

Chief Change Officer
#363 Sihame El Kaouakibi: Burnout, Bankruptcy, and the Beauty of Reinvention—Part One

It's like, for example, for women. Of course, more and more women go into leadership positions. They're needed, okay? And feminine leadership is actually based on empathy, emotional intelligence, also inclusivity. And... I know that, and I was one of them, that it's no longer true that women need to like mimic masculine or male leaders. No.

Chief Change Officer
#363 Sihame El Kaouakibi: Burnout, Bankruptcy, and the Beauty of Reinvention—Part One

I think we should embrace our strength, lead with our authentic selves. And I think we can relate. I don't know if you experienced it, but I've experienced so many times called being irritated or too emotional after just being me in stating my points in a meeting with a lot of passion. But it does affect you as a woman, as a person, as a human. You lose your genuine, vulnerable self because of it.

Chief Change Officer
#363 Sihame El Kaouakibi: Burnout, Bankruptcy, and the Beauty of Reinvention—Part One

I think we should embrace our strength, lead with our authentic selves. And I think we can relate. I don't know if you experienced it, but I've experienced so many times called being irritated or too emotional after just being me in stating my points in a meeting with a lot of passion. But it does affect you as a woman, as a person, as a human. You lose your genuine, vulnerable self because of it.