Simon Sinek

And by the way, you don't even get to judge that because the only way you know you have value in the lives of others is if others say you have value in their lives.

Right.

So that's a thing, right?

Um, you know, I'm, there's a silver, I talk about balance all the time.

There's a silver lining in every cloud.

Those are costs for everything we gain in life.

But at the same time, there's goodness that comes out of every loss.

Um, my sister and I were already pretty close.

I mean, it made us even closer.

My family and I were, my family and us were also already pretty close.

We got even closer.

I think tragedy brings families together in a way that nothing else can.

Um, perspective.

This, you know, that the stupid stuff that we got stressed about just isn't that important.

You know?

Um, there's something called post-traumatic growth.

We love talking about post-traumatic stress, but there's also post-traumatic growth.

There's a lot of growth that comes out of loss and tragedy as well.

I think, yeah, I think these things, I mean, you said it right at the top, right?

It's the fragility of why do we need these reminders?