Simone Davies
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1,174 appearances
6 recordings
1 series
first heard May 2016
last heard Oct 2022
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But actually they need guidelines sometimes and some limits.
So if a child's playing with water and that's making you feel uncomfortable, you should step in when it's making you feel uncomfortable and not when it's got so far okay, now there's so much water everywhere and it's got too far.
So you
you've kind of also been triggered.
So instead I would come up and say, Oh, I see you really want to put the water all over the floor.
Like the water's for pouring.
Do you wanna pour it into the vase or are you done with the water?
And then having to put the limit that maybe the water's finished for the day would then mean that you never got to the space where you got so
out of your comfort zone.
I mean sometimes if your child is already melting down and it's not something to do with you, then you can step in sometimes quite calmly because it's their situation.
Realising it's their problem and leaving it there, it's a big thing to practice, but it really pays off.
I mean also if you are in a social situation, it's like and you're I think sometimes just to remove yourself from that social situation so you can feel safe to just be with them as they go through their
Yeah, very emotional roller coaster.
Sometimes it's like they start with like real anger 'cause they're frustrated at the situation and then they go through sadness and then like it's um grief and it can be a forty minute process or something.
And if you can just at least be somewhere away from other sides.
I mean also just stepping in and saying, I can see that you're not coping and if you had to stay in that room with other people, just by you being very calm and l
l modeling and leading the child.
The other parents aren't gonna judge you.
They're gonna think, Wow, she just is so supportive of her child and she's there for him no matter what's going on.
And she's dead.
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