Simone Knego

And just because you failed at something doesn't make you a failure.

It just means that didn't work in that moment.

I think a lot of people forget that and they're not willing to,

to do anything they're not willing to try anything because they fear failure they feel fear that judgment that's going to happen or the negative feedback they're going to get but again you don't grow unless you put yourself out there then next is ask yourself what you want i think this is a really hard one for women we are so used to doing what we think other people expect of us

And we get so caught up in life, whether it's motherhood, whether it's a job that we feel that we have to be perfect at because we're always holding ourselves to a higher standard.

And

we have forgotten who we are.

So what do you want?

It could be some of the simplest things, right?

There's some women who don't even know what they like to eat.

They eat whatever their husband eats or they, this was a great one.

I watched this movie called Runaway Bride with Julia Roberts.

And in the movie, every time she was with a different guy, she would eat her eggs the way the guy she was with ate them.

And it was finally at the end where she decided to not get married again.

She was always the runaway bride.

She literally sat down and tried eggs all different kinds of ways to figure out what she wanted.

So it's even in the little things that we do where I don't have to say like your big life decision.

Do you want this job?

Do you want this marriage?

Think about the little things you do every day where you're just doing them, but you've never asked yourself, do you want to be doing that?