Sonia Choquette

That one's always easy.

What's not been so easy for me is to get grounded and start realizing, well, wait a minute.

If something's not going the way I want, where did my choice play a role in that?

That bugged me to death.

I didn't choose that.

I had to learn that it wasn't that I was consciously on an ego level choosing, but

But to learn the lessons I had come here to learn, I cooperated because that was the best way to learn.

Then I could start saying, okay, for example, I didn't choose my husband, but I did.

And it took me a while.

And I thought, you know, I chose him to be my companion in my youth.

But he is not a companion when I started to leave the consciousness of youth, which is we're not just going to travel and be carefree and answer to no one.

When I started to become more responsible and interested in growing and developing, we separated.

It took me a while because I couldn't reconcile.

How did I end up with him?

You know, it just seemed so crazy.

And I was like, but I chose him.

And I thought, well, for my youth, he was fun.

Yeah.

And he believed me, which was in my day, telling someone that you are psychic or an intuitive usually killed your dating life.

Right.