Sonia Gray

And that's quite confronting for people in your lives, I think, sometimes.

Yeah, but for a long time, and I probably still am, you're straddling these two worlds, your old world and your new world, because, you know, it's habit to just be a certain way.

And so it's quite destabilising.

Yeah, but definitely more a freedom, I think.

I think definitely more a freedom.

But I do want people to know that it is a process and it can get a bit worse before it gets better.

I didn't have this, but for a lot of people who are late diagnosed, there's a lot of grief and anger.

And that takes a bit of time to work through.

But I think for our parents, for our generation, they didn't know, you know, like the awareness has grown so much.

So I don't think, I mean, did we even know about ADHD?

Was it maybe in the States?

Yeah.

Yeah.

Our parents did the best they could.

Totally.

So then what happens, and this is where, you know, for a lot of women it becomes anxiety and depression, and I'm totally generalising here, but for a lot of males...

If you're told the way you are is wrong from an early age, that has massive impacts.

You're going to then go, well, I am wrong.

I am wrong.

There's people, there's teachers, parents, whatever, telling me that I am wrong.