Sonja Lyubomirsky

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1,409 appearances 3 recordings 3 series first heard Feb 2026 last heard 25 Jun

Sonja Lyubomirsky’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.

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Yeah.

Feeling love means that I believe I make a difference in your life and that I really matter in your life.

It really comes down to that.

I mean, love, of course, is about affection and care and intertwined goals.

But I think it really comes down to, like, I matter to you and you matter to me.

And it's much broader, by the way, than, of course, romantic love.

And while we talk about feeling love, we're talking about feeling loved at work, by your neighbors, by your family, by your friends.

So it's not just about your partner.

Isn't that terrible?

Yeah.

It's, it's really a, it's sad.

It's a problem.

I actually think those numbers are probably understatements.

I bet people, you know, are embarrassed.

Yeah, exactly.

Exactly.

So yeah, we did a survey expressly for the book, right?

Found there was at 70% said they don't feel as loved as they want to be at at least one significant relationship in their life.

So it's 70%.

Um, and why is that?

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