Sonja Lyubomirsky
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1,409 appearances
3 recordings
3 series
first heard Feb 2026
last heard 25 Jun
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I think many of them have love, they have connection, they have friends and somehow, yeah, they're not, they're not, it's not getting it, it's not getting internalized.
Well, I was talking about the cup of love.
I think if you're anxiously attached or avoidantly attached, I think that's a huge barrier somehow.
Again, if you're anxious, it's like you're watching for signs of rejection, signs that the person doesn't love you.
If you're avoided, maybe you're not even noticing those signs of love.
I mean, it could even be, it's funny, the idea of the love languages, we actually debunk the idea of the love languages in the book.
We have a whole section on it.
We didn't do it, someone else did it.
But there's a truth to it.
I mean, it's a good heuristic that if somehow, like I actually was dating someone who kept sending me gifts
like in the mail with like little handwritten notes.
It's actually really cute.
And yet didn't do the things that I actually really wanted him to do, which is really like saying something to me or, you know, my love quote, love languages are words of affirmation and physical touch.
What we've debunked is that there's not just five languages.
There's many.
And that what we debunked is not we.
Other people have debunked the idea that matching in your love language is
predicts like how good or how strong or how stable your relationship is.
It does not predict it.
It turns out everyone cares about two love languages, words of affirmation and quality time.
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