Sonja Lyubomirsky
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1,409 appearances
3 recordings
3 series
first heard Feb 2026
last heard 25 Jun
Sonja Lyubomirsky’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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And so then they can really go about their evening.
And then to her, it just seems like this is so easy.
It's just 15 minutes of your time.
And so
It's like she's not feeling loved by his response.
She's asking really to be seen and heard.
She needs him to kind of, yes, make her feel loved.
I've totally been in that situation where I've complained like, why?
And like my husband used to say, and he's like, look, I'm helping you do the dishes, like literally with the dishes, like I'm doing it.
Like, I don't need to be happy doing it was his response.
And I'm like, no, but I want you to be happy doing it, which is really the same kind of thing.
And I'd like to broaden it, not just physical attractiveness, but sort of other characteristics where we think like, if only I were more physically attractive, then I'd be more loved.
If only I were more successful, I would feel more loved.
These are called extrinsic goals, right?
Which is like beauty, fame, power, money, popularity, right?
If only I had those things, I would feel more loved or I would get more love.
And then we try to show that off, right?
Sort of broadcast those positive qualities.
And, you know, and it doesn't work.
It might work to impress a person, but it doesn't work to actually make us feel more love.
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