Sophie

So I feel like I was kind of like winging this a little bit going into it.

And I think it probably hurt the most just because it was like the first time I had was catching real feelings for someone that, you know, since my ex, but then like, how do I, so I like, even while I was dating this guy, I was still talking to other people.

Like I was like going on dates with other people, but I was like open to meeting other people and trying not to shut myself off.

Now, since this, I have been going on first dates again or meeting new people and doing a lot of comparing in my head because it was so instant with this last guy.

How do I cut that off, basically?

Well, thank you.

So you agree.

I shouldn't reach out.

I'm doing the right thing.

Okay, good.

Cause I know that when I'm thinking logically, but if I get caught up in a little bit of a spiral,

I don't want to do that.

Yeah.

Yeah.

My like general thought was just like kill him with maturity when I can, because I know he's not used to that, like in his previous relationship and I'm a little bit older.

So it's like, and I know I've done a lot of work on myself, but yeah, I don't want to play therapist.

Yeah.

Thank you.

I appreciate that.

And that's like high praise.