Sophie

Like that's the best feedback you can get.

Yeah.

Because they were basically saying I should have come on this trip that he was on last weekend.

They were like, oh, you should come.

Yeah.

And I was trying to like, like, he would say, like, I really like you.

And I would say, like, well, what do you like about me?

And like, I was, I listen to your podcast a lot.

So I was trying to practice what you preach.

And it sounded like sometimes, so it did come up a couple times, like he would open up with things with his ex.

And he said, like,

I don't usually like talk to people about this stuff.

And I was like, well, I'm glad that you feel comfortable talking to me about it.

But it almost got to the point sometimes where I didn't want to play therapist to him either.

And I said to him at one point, I was like, hey, like, I really like that you talked to me and you feel comfortable talking to me about this.

But I also like it when we're like flirty and fun and just, you know, dating each other too.

um it would just be like little thing like if if he had to see her for like a drop-off pickup scenario like she would say things that were like triggering to him like she would say like oh you know the kid has like a fever why didn't you notice that and he was like i was literally with him all day like i didn't i didn't notice that i would have you know he was acting fine like things like that i would just be like little little things but you think that's yeah i guess maybe that's yeah

it was more like a, how's your day going?

Like, Oh, I'm dealing with this.

Like she's just being ridiculous.