Sophie

And it's, and he wouldn't dig into it too much.

I would say it was like in, in passing.

Um, but yeah, he, he definitely talked more, but I was also like withholding a little bit of sharing my story with him just because I wanted to make sure that like things were good.

And now I'm kind of glad I guess that I didn't, unless he thought I was putting walls up.

Um,

I mean listen um I think for the time being mentally you're you need to be done right what if he reaches out like um I guess it really depends on what he says it's not fair to you his like actions to back up what he was saying before because now like he hasn't he hasn't made any commitment to see he literally hasn't seen me since he left that morning

Yeah.

Yeah, exactly.

Yeah, yeah.

And honestly, like, I'm in a better place now than I was two weeks ago with it.

Because I, like, historically in my past relationship have been, like, a really anxious, attached person.

And I felt, like, I thought I got over it.

I think I was just over that relationship.

So I wasn't as anxiously attached.

But now with this guy...

it was like when he was pulling back, like I was, I all of a sudden was like seeking that validation from him and I was recognizing it and being like trying to check myself on it.

And so if anything, it showed me that like, I still have stuff to work on for myself too.

Um,

But, yeah, I just, like, I guess now, you know, whatever ends up happening with this, like, if I don't ever hear from him again, like, getting back into the dating scene, I feel like I'm good.

I'm good on, like, a first or second date.