Stacey Rutherford
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And, you know, I will support them if that's something that they want when they get of an age to make those kind of decisions where they know everything that happened, because I understand that they probably will maybe someday want that.
I've done it a few times in the last few months and never mailed anything. Right. I would write it and I would hold on to it. And then I would just throw it away. Yeah. One of the ones that I threw away was pretty vicious. And my sister was like, yeah, I don't think you should send that because you might go to jail for a threat. Because it was just in the moment I was very angry.
I've done it a few times in the last few months and never mailed anything. Right. I would write it and I would hold on to it. And then I would just throw it away. Yeah. One of the ones that I threw away was pretty vicious. And my sister was like, yeah, I don't think you should send that because you might go to jail for a threat. Because it was just in the moment I was very angry.
I've done it a few times in the last few months and never mailed anything. Right. I would write it and I would hold on to it. And then I would just throw it away. Yeah. One of the ones that I threw away was pretty vicious. And my sister was like, yeah, I don't think you should send that because you might go to jail for a threat. Because it was just in the moment I was very angry.
I was having one of those days.
I was having one of those days.
I was having one of those days.
I just think when you are going through everything first being found out, you're like living on adrenaline and you're just in survival mode. And then as soon as the trial stuff starts, then you're dealing with all of that. And I don't think you really have time to sit down and deal with like everything. So you just put first what needs to be put first.
I just think when you are going through everything first being found out, you're like living on adrenaline and you're just in survival mode. And then as soon as the trial stuff starts, then you're dealing with all of that. And I don't think you really have time to sit down and deal with like everything. So you just put first what needs to be put first.
I just think when you are going through everything first being found out, you're like living on adrenaline and you're just in survival mode. And then as soon as the trial stuff starts, then you're dealing with all of that. And I don't think you really have time to sit down and deal with like everything. So you just put first what needs to be put first.
I think after all the stuff was done with both of the court cases and everything like that, things felt settled down a little bit. But I think that's when all the other shit starts to kick in. You know, the missing things and hurting and then being angry and
I think after all the stuff was done with both of the court cases and everything like that, things felt settled down a little bit. But I think that's when all the other shit starts to kick in. You know, the missing things and hurting and then being angry and
I think after all the stuff was done with both of the court cases and everything like that, things felt settled down a little bit. But I think that's when all the other shit starts to kick in. You know, the missing things and hurting and then being angry and
I just, I think I was more just like, what? What the fuck? Like, this is what we're worried about, like him making sure that the kids have a gift from him. And oh, but, you know, isn't it nice that you're allowing someone else to buy that for you to give to them so that you don't have to spend any of your money that you need to spend on your lawyer for, you know, a gift for your kids?
I just, I think I was more just like, what? What the fuck? Like, this is what we're worried about, like him making sure that the kids have a gift from him. And oh, but, you know, isn't it nice that you're allowing someone else to buy that for you to give to them so that you don't have to spend any of your money that you need to spend on your lawyer for, you know, a gift for your kids?
I just, I think I was more just like, what? What the fuck? Like, this is what we're worried about, like him making sure that the kids have a gift from him. And oh, but, you know, isn't it nice that you're allowing someone else to buy that for you to give to them so that you don't have to spend any of your money that you need to spend on your lawyer for, you know, a gift for your kids?
I don't know. It just it rubbed me wrong. And I was just salty for a little bit about it.
I don't know. It just it rubbed me wrong. And I was just salty for a little bit about it.
I don't know. It just it rubbed me wrong. And I was just salty for a little bit about it.
I am able to buy my kids things. It's not like I'm totally destitute. But you're using a charity for children who may not get a single thing. When you know good and well you have money in your account, so you want to come in and be fun daddy, you know, ooh, look, daddy sent us a present, when you really didn't do anything behind that.