Steven Wolt

Recovery is about building a life you don't need to escape from.

That can take time.

And so for many guys, especially single guys, right, where there's not external leverage or consequences on you, right?

A married guy, he's really in trouble with his relationship.

He's got to get sober or the marriage is at risk.

Right.

That's one dynamic.

But now you've got a single guy right now.

What is the motivation for him right now to continue on this work?

You gotta keep that person inspired and motivated to continue to do the work.

And guess what?

If the best that you can do is watch 80 to 90% less porn in any given month, great job.

Right.

Great job.

As long as that is in conjunction with you developing new habits to take better care of yourself physically, spiritually, and emotionally.

Amen.

Recovery is a, the ability to sustain abstinence will be a byproduct of you taking better care of yourself physically, emotionally, and spiritually.

Yeah, it's a three-sided deal.

100%.

So guys quit too early.