Steven

I already told you I'm not going to do that.

I already told you I'm not going to do that.

I already told you I am not going to do that.

I already told you I am not going to do that.

What type of person struggles with this?

What type of person struggles with this?

Does one's self-esteem and one's... insecurities play a role in this?

Does one's self-esteem and one's... insecurities play a role in this?

Okay.

Okay.

And what is my assertive voice? And how is sort of an assertive voice different to like disrespecting someone? I've got this graph, I think it's taken from your book, which shows the sort of middle ground of, I'll put it on the screen for anyone that can't see, but respecting others sort of versus respecting yourself. And in the middle there, you have your assertive voice.

And what is my assertive voice? And how is sort of an assertive voice different to like disrespecting someone? I've got this graph, I think it's taken from your book, which shows the sort of middle ground of, I'll put it on the screen for anyone that can't see, but respecting others sort of versus respecting yourself. And in the middle there, you have your assertive voice.

What is my assertive voice?

What is my assertive voice?

You have to find ways to say more with less. So does the amount that I speak, have consequence.

You have to find ways to say more with less. So does the amount that I speak, have consequence.

They listen a whole lot more. Do people capitalize on that? So if you're triggered by me saying that you have a purple shirt on, Have I got the power now? Because I can play you like a fiddle if you're so easily triggered by something that's so obviously like provocation. Surely I have the power over you now, right?

They listen a whole lot more. Do people capitalize on that? So if you're triggered by me saying that you have a purple shirt on, Have I got the power now? Because I can play you like a fiddle if you're so easily triggered by something that's so obviously like provocation. Surely I have the power over you now, right?

Do you have a lot of people pleasers coming to you?

Do you have a lot of people pleasers coming to you?