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Tabitha Brown

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The School of Greatness
How To Set EFFECTIVE Boundaries Without Sabotaging Your Relationships

So I always say start with doing something new. It can be as simple as driving a different way to work. or a different way to a friend's house, whatever, or walking a different way, just so that your eyes can see something it has never seen before. Something new that shifts the brain, right? Like even wearing something you normally don't wear.

The School of Greatness
How To Set EFFECTIVE Boundaries Without Sabotaging Your Relationships

So I always say start with doing something new. It can be as simple as driving a different way to work. or a different way to a friend's house, whatever, or walking a different way, just so that your eyes can see something it has never seen before. Something new that shifts the brain, right? Like even wearing something you normally don't wear.

The School of Greatness
How To Set EFFECTIVE Boundaries Without Sabotaging Your Relationships

Like for me, I always tell people, if you wear black all the time, throw some color on.

The School of Greatness
How To Set EFFECTIVE Boundaries Without Sabotaging Your Relationships

Like for me, I always tell people, if you wear black all the time, throw some color on.

The School of Greatness
How To Set EFFECTIVE Boundaries Without Sabotaging Your Relationships

Like for me, I don't like wearing black, but I found this and I was like, it got a little color on it. It's cool. I'm doing a new thing, right? And so it's little things, even trying a new food, you know, going to dinner or lunch by yourself. You know how many people are afraid to eat alone? I know. Doing things that challenge you that will open up a new space inside of you.

The School of Greatness
How To Set EFFECTIVE Boundaries Without Sabotaging Your Relationships

Like for me, I don't like wearing black, but I found this and I was like, it got a little color on it. It's cool. I'm doing a new thing, right? And so it's little things, even trying a new food, you know, going to dinner or lunch by yourself. You know how many people are afraid to eat alone? I know. Doing things that challenge you that will open up a new space inside of you.

The School of Greatness
How To Set EFFECTIVE Boundaries Without Sabotaging Your Relationships

That's what doing a new thing does for us. And that's how we start to think, oh, okay. And then going back to like, what is your dream? Like, what's the thing that won't let you rest? And I talked about this recently because people sometimes they get confused by a dream versus a goal. Goals are things that we create. Dreams are deposited inside of us.

The School of Greatness
How To Set EFFECTIVE Boundaries Without Sabotaging Your Relationships

That's what doing a new thing does for us. And that's how we start to think, oh, okay. And then going back to like, what is your dream? Like, what's the thing that won't let you rest? And I talked about this recently because people sometimes they get confused by a dream versus a goal. Goals are things that we create. Dreams are deposited inside of us.

The School of Greatness
How To Set EFFECTIVE Boundaries Without Sabotaging Your Relationships

We don't make them up. They live there. That's why we can't rest because they're constantly nagging us. A goal, you can be like, I didn't make that goal. Or I did it, Chet. But the dream won't let you rest. Even when you manifest it and it comes, it still is persistent. There's more to do until we are getting called home. The dream is just, it lives inside of us. It's born inside of us.

The School of Greatness
How To Set EFFECTIVE Boundaries Without Sabotaging Your Relationships

We don't make them up. They live there. That's why we can't rest because they're constantly nagging us. A goal, you can be like, I didn't make that goal. Or I did it, Chet. But the dream won't let you rest. Even when you manifest it and it comes, it still is persistent. There's more to do until we are getting called home. The dream is just, it lives inside of us. It's born inside of us.

The School of Greatness
How To Set EFFECTIVE Boundaries Without Sabotaging Your Relationships

So I always say do one small thing every day towards your dream. Even if you're stuck in the nine to five job or in a relationship that, you know, or business, whatever the case is, that makes you feel like, oh, I don't have time to do something towards me. Right. Which we are worthy of doing something toward ourselves every day. Yes.

The School of Greatness
How To Set EFFECTIVE Boundaries Without Sabotaging Your Relationships

So I always say do one small thing every day towards your dream. Even if you're stuck in the nine to five job or in a relationship that, you know, or business, whatever the case is, that makes you feel like, oh, I don't have time to do something towards me. Right. Which we are worthy of doing something toward ourselves every day. Yes.

The School of Greatness
How To Set EFFECTIVE Boundaries Without Sabotaging Your Relationships

do one small thing, whether it's reading something that can help open up, you know, an idea in your mind to help you get closer to your dream, whether it's watching a movie or a TV show or listening to a podcast that can help inspire or open up something in your mind, something small every day. One little thing.

The School of Greatness
How To Set EFFECTIVE Boundaries Without Sabotaging Your Relationships

do one small thing, whether it's reading something that can help open up, you know, an idea in your mind to help you get closer to your dream, whether it's watching a movie or a TV show or listening to a podcast that can help inspire or open up something in your mind, something small every day. One little thing.

The School of Greatness
How To Set EFFECTIVE Boundaries Without Sabotaging Your Relationships

I don't know who put that time frame on us.

The School of Greatness
How To Set EFFECTIVE Boundaries Without Sabotaging Your Relationships

I don't know who put that time frame on us.

The School of Greatness
How To Set EFFECTIVE Boundaries Without Sabotaging Your Relationships

I learned that I was not ready when I thought I was. I wouldn't have had nothing to show for it, right? I needed to do, as my daddy would say, keep on living. I needed to do more living before it came so that I could, A, know how to pray for it, right? Because a lot of times I used to pray, pray, pray for all these things to happen. Oh God, I want my dreams to come true.

The School of Greatness
How To Set EFFECTIVE Boundaries Without Sabotaging Your Relationships

I learned that I was not ready when I thought I was. I wouldn't have had nothing to show for it, right? I needed to do, as my daddy would say, keep on living. I needed to do more living before it came so that I could, A, know how to pray for it, right? Because a lot of times I used to pray, pray, pray for all these things to happen. Oh God, I want my dreams to come true.

The School of Greatness
How To Set EFFECTIVE Boundaries Without Sabotaging Your Relationships

And, you know, I'm fasting, I'm praying on it. But I was never praying, God, when I get it, prepare me to keep it.

The School of Greatness
How To Set EFFECTIVE Boundaries Without Sabotaging Your Relationships

And, you know, I'm fasting, I'm praying on it. But I was never praying, God, when I get it, prepare me to keep it.