Tahira Watson or Jamonna Turner

So my question was, how do you deal with. Wanted to step out onto your own independence when you feel like your family depends on you for whatever it may be as stability in the sense with my family per se. So the household I grew up in, it's normal to stay at home until you get married and then just venture out on your own after that.

But I feel like now it's at the point where a lot of it is because more so instead of just being there to support me, but more so trying to shelter me from things that are in the outside world. Yeah, wow. I'm so sorry.

So, I'm 31. I just turned 31 in February. And I'm a virgin. I'm saving myself for marriage.

Yes.

But when it comes to dating, that always throws the guys off. I was actually just talking to a guy. And he's like, you're great. Like, you have your own. But... I can't save myself for marriage. And I always run into this issue. And I'm like trying to put myself out there. And I'm kind of getting a little discouraged because every guy that I meet is like, that's a no-no.

And so if you were my big sister, what advice would you give me?