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To, oh my gosh, am I really that way or am I just kind of putting up this front?

I think simply by the fact that you're kind of moving through life right now, even writing in a question like this, even questioning that is a really good sign.

And I think it's okay.

I don't think you have to be totally healed by anything.

Look, I have gone through my share of breakups or disappointments or relationships that ended.

And I think I was fine for six months.

And then all of a sudden I'd see something or hear something or some song came on.

And I'd burst into tears and I'm like, what happened to me?

I was doing so well.

So I don't think you have to be all healed and like, there we go.

We're wrapping it up in a nice bow.

I think it's important to know that you're human and you can take those moments to grieve a loss, even if that comes in six months and go back to what you were doing.

I hope that's helpful.

I think it's really hard to know.

I don't think there's like an end point to knowing that you're all better.

Half the amount of time.

I don't know.

I think we give ourselves these rules because it makes things easier.

And so if that makes it easier, that's fine.

So if you dated him for like two years, is it going to take one year to get better?