Tamsen Fadal
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Podcast Appearances
I don't think so.
That's crazy.
You're not going to let it.
Oh my gosh.
I don't think there's anything wrong with you.
Here's what I think.
First of all, six dates in two months, I give it up to you for that because...
I think that this way you know.
You're not going on one date six times and then realizing that person is not for you.
You're going on a date and going like, that's not it.
I'm moving on.
Here's what I would say.
If you go on a date and you actually have a good time with that person or you have a great conversation or there's some type of connection, I wouldn't mind seeing you go on a second one.
Meaning that just because there's not this flicker of excitement inside of you doesn't mean that there's not a possibility of their becoming something in the future, you know, or giving that person a chance.
I think first dates are really awkward and weird.
I think they get harder and harder.
So just because you didn't feel some kind of like sexual desire or some emotional flicker, butterflies in your stomach, whatever you want to call it, doesn't mean there couldn't be some type of connection there.
So I keep that in mind, one.
So if there was anybody in those six people, maybe you give one of those people a second chance.
But no, there's nothing wrong with you.