Tamsen Fadal

There's nothing wrong with you.

These patterns don't mean you're broken.

They just mean you're human.

They mean that you've been doing what so many of us were taught to do, to chase approval, to meet milestones and timelines,

to fix everybody else, and to shrink.

But once you see the pattern, you can break it.

Stop asking, why am I like this?

And asking what you want instead.

Because you can change everything.

You have the power to stop giving all your power away and start choosing from a place of strength.

And by the way, if you take nothing else from today and say, Tamsen, you're crazy, let it be this.

Love is not something you earn by disappearing into somebody else's story.

The right love is the one that lets you be fully yourself.

I so appreciate you spending time with me today.

If this episode about dating spoke to you, it would mean so much if you left a review on Apple or Spotify or wherever you're listening from or YouTube, if that's what you're watching.

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And remember, your life isn't late and your love story is not behind.

Don't wait for someday.

Live your someday today.

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