Tate Brown

It's like, no young women understand this.

And for young men and young women that are pursuing like a Christlike marriage, this is just unbelievably demoralizing and frustrating to see.

Cause it's like, yes, we know young women who are women that like sleep around, get bailed out all the time.

we know that and then in addition to that it was just no repercussions no repercussions and then it was insulting where he says she's more pure than a lot of virgins i think he might have said most virgins that's just absurd on the face because like one that has a definition what like pure means and two it's like screw you like there's a lot of young women specifically that are waiting that are trying to be obedient and you like this woman's stolen valor because like what this guy married her now she's more pure it's like no that's ridiculous

Yikes, that is ice cold.

What Tristan's getting at, and I'm trying to approach this from a Christian standpoint, but what he is hitting on is valid, and this is a problem, is this scarcity mindset.

So it's specifically with young men, because the dating market is so bad for young men right now, that as soon as they find a woman that will show them love and affection, especially if this guy, I think he's a little older, he's like 30 when he got married, they're just gonna jump in with both feet, because the reality is, for a lot of young men right now, especially Christian young men,

there is this sense that there's really not that many eligible spouses, and they have a really difficult time finding eligible spouses.

So if they finally find someone that at least ticks a few boxes, they just go all in and worship this woman.

It's this scarcity mindset, and it's a big problem in the evangelical community.

Yeah.

And that's the thing.

There's this thing where a lot of men are like, wow, she's ran through or whatever.

She's really going to regret that one day or she's waiting to get married.

She's really going to regret that when she's older and doesn't have kids.

It's like there is no justice, actually.

These women do end up happily ever after.

They will find a guy that, again, is just going to bail her out that's looking for a wife and he's gotten old enough where he's like, I'll just marry anyone that will show me affection.

There is no justice.

These women will be fine.