Terri Cole

Because here's the thing. People have a right to succeed and fail. People have a right to thrive and to flail. But if you're an HFC... You don't want anybody flailing in your vicinity. You're like, no flailing over here. I'm not into it. And yet, this is part of really being in a relationship, is being able to allow others to struggle. Auch wenn es dich unangenehm macht.

Because here's the thing. People have a right to succeed and fail. People have a right to thrive and to flail. But if you're an HFC... You don't want anybody flailing in your vicinity. You're like, no flailing over here. I'm not into it. And yet, this is part of really being in a relationship, is being able to allow others to struggle. Auch wenn es dich unangenehm macht.

Because here's the thing. People have a right to succeed and fail. People have a right to thrive and to flail. But if you're an HFC... You don't want anybody flailing in your vicinity. You're like, no flailing over here. I'm not into it. And yet, this is part of really being in a relationship, is being able to allow others to struggle. Auch wenn es dich unangenehm macht.

Echt unangenehm. Extrem unangenehm.

Echt unangenehm. Extrem unangenehm.

Echt unangenehm. Extrem unangenehm.

But let's start with what are the quick steps that people can do. So if you know you need to have a conversation with your father who's a difficult person. Was ist das Problem? Das ist der erste Schritt. Was ist das Problem? Sie kommen zu Ihrem Haus ohne Warnung. Sie kommen zu Ihrem Haus ohne Warnung, um Ihre Karte zu nutzen, oder so etwas.

But let's start with what are the quick steps that people can do. So if you know you need to have a conversation with your father who's a difficult person. Was ist das Problem? Das ist der erste Schritt. Was ist das Problem? Sie kommen zu Ihrem Haus ohne Warnung. Sie kommen zu Ihrem Haus ohne Warnung, um Ihre Karte zu nutzen, oder so etwas.

But let's start with what are the quick steps that people can do. So if you know you need to have a conversation with your father who's a difficult person. Was ist das Problem? Das ist der erste Schritt. Was ist das Problem? Sie kommen zu Ihrem Haus ohne Warnung. Sie kommen zu Ihrem Haus ohne Warnung, um Ihre Karte zu nutzen, oder so etwas.

Dann entscheidet man sich, wann der optimalen Zeitpunkt ist, um mit ihm zu sprechen. Wenn Ihr Vater nicht morgens ist, dann macht es nicht morgens. Wenn Ihr mit ihm zu Abend gehen wollt, und er ist nach dem Abend entspannt, dann habt Ihr die Gespräche, wenn Ihr möchtet. Dann kommt Ihr mit dem Skript.

Dann entscheidet man sich, wann der optimalen Zeitpunkt ist, um mit ihm zu sprechen. Wenn Ihr Vater nicht morgens ist, dann macht es nicht morgens. Wenn Ihr mit ihm zu Abend gehen wollt, und er ist nach dem Abend entspannt, dann habt Ihr die Gespräche, wenn Ihr möchtet. Dann kommt Ihr mit dem Skript.

Dann entscheidet man sich, wann der optimalen Zeitpunkt ist, um mit ihm zu sprechen. Wenn Ihr Vater nicht morgens ist, dann macht es nicht morgens. Wenn Ihr mit ihm zu Abend gehen wollt, und er ist nach dem Abend entspannt, dann habt Ihr die Gespräche, wenn Ihr möchtet. Dann kommt Ihr mit dem Skript.

You know, and I give you a million stem starters and all different ways to come up with the script. Hey, Dad, I love spending time with you. As you know, you're my favorite person. And I really need you to text me before you come over because I'm not always here and it causes stress for me. What if he gets mad? What if he's offended? I don't have to call.

You know, and I give you a million stem starters and all different ways to come up with the script. Hey, Dad, I love spending time with you. As you know, you're my favorite person. And I really need you to text me before you come over because I'm not always here and it causes stress for me. What if he gets mad? What if he's offended? I don't have to call.

You know, and I give you a million stem starters and all different ways to come up with the script. Hey, Dad, I love spending time with you. As you know, you're my favorite person. And I really need you to text me before you come over because I'm not always here and it causes stress for me. What if he gets mad? What if he's offended? I don't have to call.

You can say, no, Dad, you really do, actually. And I see that you're upset and I love you, but please just respect that boundary or whatever. And a lot of times the thing is, we're afraid people are going to be upset.

You can say, no, Dad, you really do, actually. And I see that you're upset and I love you, but please just respect that boundary or whatever. And a lot of times the thing is, we're afraid people are going to be upset.

You can say, no, Dad, you really do, actually. And I see that you're upset and I love you, but please just respect that boundary or whatever. And a lot of times the thing is, we're afraid people are going to be upset.

A lot of times they're not. A lot of times they go, oh my God, thank you so much for telling me.

A lot of times they're not. A lot of times they go, oh my God, thank you so much for telling me.