Terri (Terry) Cole

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188 appearances 1 recordings 1 series first heard Aug 2026 last heard 8 Aug

Terri (Terry) Cole’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.

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When you, I was trying to get this out and I felt like you kept interrupting me and it was really frustrating.

I would love it if you could just be aware of this.

Not saying something is basically colluding with the lowest part of Bob, who might just be clueless.

But, you know, I've been a psychotherapist for 25 years and I promise you it's worth it.

To me, that goes in the category of like the lies we tell ourselves to avoid having hard conversations.

Right.

Where we either make excuses for someone else's crappy behavior or we say it isn't worth it.

But here's the thing.

You being authentically known.

is worth it.

It doesn't mean that people have to acquiesce to what we say.

So keep in mind that expressing a boundary, desire or preference or limit, that isn't about controlling others.

It's about honoring ourselves.

And that's a win regardless of what they do.

You know, Mike, I totally agree.

And the reason is because someone who has

healthy boundaries is trustworthy.

If you do not have the disease to please, people can trust your yes and they can also trust your no.

There is definitely an exaggerated fear there.

Especially if you have your own fear of abandonment or rejection or being perceived as mean.

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