Terry Real
👤 SpeakerAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
I'm alive.
I'm fine.
Don't worry about me.
You'll wind up
Having less to deal with, if you put 10 seconds into it, then if you don't put the 10 seconds into it, and then you've got mom on the phone talking to you for 20 minutes about, you know, why can't you be more responsible?
It's up to you, but it's an investment in your life.
future, your well-being.
What the prefrontal cortex knows that the limbic system doesn't is it's in my interest to behave well because I'll get less shit for it.
No, you're right.
Yeah, but that's not relational.
Sure.
And medicine is saturated with patriarchy.
This is all, you know, the hazing that goes on.
This is all masculinity.
It's just like bootcamping for the Marines.
And this notion that you either do it excellently or you don't do it all is another—it deprives us of being human beings with each other.
It really gets in the way.
So, yeah, you're right.
I'm sure that's what he's thinking.
And also, take a step back.