Terry Real
👤 SpeakerAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
Yeah, well said.
That's what I want.
You're a pretty relational dude, I got to tell you.
No, intimacy is better.
Gratification is fine, but intimacy is better.
It's a deeper satisfaction.
You know, one of the things I say is, I talk about relational recovery.
Addictions can be part of it, but recovering the state of relationality we're born for, that's what I'm looking for.
And one of the things I say is, operating with maturity, skill, health, integrity, learning how to do this well, your life is simple.
Being fucked up, that's complicated.
Totally.
Fighting for a day and a half, that's complicated.
Totally.
When your wife comes at you and says, I'm really mad, you go, I'm sorry, honey, what can I do to help you?
And she's chilled out in 10 minutes.
That's simple.
So relationality is actually simple.
Not being relational is full of complications.
This is easy.
Oh, my God.