Terry Real

Yes.

Yes.

Yes.

Yes.

Here's my most famous quote. It's the height of pretension to quote yourself, but I will. You can do it. Thank you. Family pathology, family pathology, rolls from generation to generation. like a fire in the woods, taking down everything in its path until one person in one generation has the courage to turn and face the flames.

Here's my most famous quote. It's the height of pretension to quote yourself, but I will. You can do it. Thank you. Family pathology, family pathology, rolls from generation to generation. like a fire in the woods, taking down everything in its path until one person in one generation has the courage to turn and face the flames.

That person brings peace to their ancestors and spares the children to follow.

That person brings peace to their ancestors and spares the children to follow.

We both were. It was a rare moment. We both were.

We both were. It was a rare moment. We both were.

Apt and healing and difficult. I'll tell you this. I am the son of a depressed, angry father. He was the son of a depressed, angry father. I have two boys, 35, 37. Neither of them say that, and neither will their children. And that is the greatest accomplishment of my life.

Apt and healing and difficult. I'll tell you this. I am the son of a depressed, angry father. He was the son of a depressed, angry father. I have two boys, 35, 37. Neither of them say that, and neither will their children. And that is the greatest accomplishment of my life.

Sure, yeah, no, I... I consider myself a relationship expert and an expert on male psychology.

Sure, yeah, no, I... I consider myself a relationship expert and an expert on male psychology.

Am I mansplaining? No.

Am I mansplaining? No.

Well, yes and no. I mean, power... Yes, miserableness also. I think one of the revolutionary things I said, and I really want to give a shout out to some beautiful early feminist psychologists, the folks at the Stone Center, Jean Baker Miller, but most of all, Carol Gilligan, my dear friend. who are man-loving feminists.

Well, yes and no. I mean, power... Yes, miserableness also. I think one of the revolutionary things I said, and I really want to give a shout out to some beautiful early feminist psychologists, the folks at the Stone Center, Jean Baker Miller, but most of all, Carol Gilligan, my dear friend. who are man-loving feminists.

I was really, and to some degree am, one of the few male voices saying, patriarchy is a system that does damage to everybody. Mm-hmm.

I was really, and to some degree am, one of the few male voices saying, patriarchy is a system that does damage to everybody. Mm-hmm.