Tess Vigeland
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155 appearances
8 recordings
2 series
first heard Nov 2024
last heard 13 Apr
Tess Vigeland’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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Yeah.
My 38 female soon-to-be ex-fiance, 38-year-old male, convinced himself that an OnlyFans creator who he spends thousands of dollars on a month wants to date him.
He's built up $50,000 in debt he's been hiding from me and has been secretly planning to liquidate his 401k to try to go make things work with his girl.
He's throwing away our life for a woman who he pays to like him.
He fell in love with the stripper.
How do I protect myself?
I live in Puerto Rico.
We own the house outright.
We're both on the deed.
He hasn't done anything physical, but I have screenshots of his OnlyFans messages and chat GPT transcripts of him saying he's going to leave me.
I don't want to sell my house.
Edit.
All of our other finances are independent.
We've been together for 13 years, living in this house we own for three.
I'm going to buy him out of his equity.
He gets everything he wants.
I get to start over.
This does not have to be anything super significant or really even that serious, but curious to know if there are habits you have had in the past that you can now change since you have money.
It seems like most people on the sub grew up middle or lower class, and I know that can carry over some habits of frugality.
You know, it's evolved over the years, but I'm mostly now a non-planner. Like, I'll get plane tickets, maybe a hotel, but other than that, it's all improv, and I avoid tours like the plane. But partly this is because I usually travel solo.
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