Tessa Njunku

So it places women and pleasure at the center.

And I think that's more enticing to women today.

I think conversations like this, they're kind of, you know, they're very much, I feel like they're time capsules of our time.

Like they give us such a good outlook on what society has to say about, you know, marriage, sex, dating.

And those are such key pillars of our society.

So we definitely should talk about it.

I think in some sense sometimes these debates can be a bit sterile because what tends to happen is they exist within an ego chamber.

You know, I was talking about this with a friend of mine who's a straight man in his mid-20s and he was like, I have no idea what any of these dating concepts are.

So what tends to happen is that they only exist on the algorithm of women like me.

So women in their mid-20s.

And when I was having any sort of like relationship woes, it would also come up on my algorithm as well.

So what's happening is that it's just kind of feeding itself and

And it's not falling into the ears of who you think it should be for.

So I think there just isn't a consensus for things like this.

No one would have the same answer.

So while I do think it's good to talk about it, I think it's also more important to kind of listen and be open to different opinions because human connection is such a complex issue.

You can't solve it, you know, in a black and white way.