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Habits and Hustle
Episode 561: Thais Gibson: The Four-Attachment Styles Explained + Why “Self Sabotage” Is A Myth

Like people are just, we can't really put into a clear box how they're going to behave.

Habits and Hustle
Episode 561: Thais Gibson: The Four-Attachment Styles Explained + Why “Self Sabotage” Is A Myth

And so fearful of wins are very hypervigilant.

Habits and Hustle
Episode 561: Thais Gibson: The Four-Attachment Styles Explained + Why “Self Sabotage” Is A Myth

They really read into microexpressions and body language.

Habits and Hustle
Episode 561: Thais Gibson: The Four-Attachment Styles Explained + Why “Self Sabotage” Is A Myth

They clock everything.

Habits and Hustle
Episode 561: Thais Gibson: The Four-Attachment Styles Explained + Why “Self Sabotage” Is A Myth

I joke that the fearful wins are kind of the human lie detectors.

Habits and Hustle
Episode 561: Thais Gibson: The Four-Attachment Styles Explained + Why “Self Sabotage” Is A Myth

Like they just notice every little shift.

Habits and Hustle
Episode 561: Thais Gibson: The Four-Attachment Styles Explained + Why “Self Sabotage” Is A Myth

And if you tell a story one day and you tell it differently three days later or three months later, they're like, wait.

Habits and Hustle
Episode 561: Thais Gibson: The Four-Attachment Styles Explained + Why “Self Sabotage” Is A Myth

Right.

Habits and Hustle
Episode 561: Thais Gibson: The Four-Attachment Styles Explained + Why “Self Sabotage” Is A Myth

And they notice everything.

Habits and Hustle
Episode 561: Thais Gibson: The Four-Attachment Styles Explained + Why “Self Sabotage” Is A Myth

And so they're kind of a little bit suspicious.

Habits and Hustle
Episode 561: Thais Gibson: The Four-Attachment Styles Explained + Why “Self Sabotage” Is A Myth

They're kind of on edge.

Habits and Hustle
Episode 561: Thais Gibson: The Four-Attachment Styles Explained + Why “Self Sabotage” Is A Myth

They're usually, if they do enough regulation, they're usually quite highly successful because they're very much like...

Habits and Hustle
Episode 561: Thais Gibson: The Four-Attachment Styles Explained + Why “Self Sabotage” Is A Myth

good at reading people and figuring things out.

Habits and Hustle
Episode 561: Thais Gibson: The Four-Attachment Styles Explained + Why “Self Sabotage” Is A Myth

And they're great under pressure and they're resilient.

Habits and Hustle
Episode 561: Thais Gibson: The Four-Attachment Styles Explained + Why “Self Sabotage” Is A Myth

They often end up being entrepreneurs if they're regulated enough to get there.

Habits and Hustle
Episode 561: Thais Gibson: The Four-Attachment Styles Explained + Why “Self Sabotage” Is A Myth

So those are fearful avoidance.

Habits and Hustle
Episode 561: Thais Gibson: The Four-Attachment Styles Explained + Why “Self Sabotage” Is A Myth

They're very warm.

Habits and Hustle
Episode 561: Thais Gibson: The Four-Attachment Styles Explained + Why “Self Sabotage” Is A Myth

They're very deep.

Habits and Hustle
Episode 561: Thais Gibson: The Four-Attachment Styles Explained + Why “Self Sabotage” Is A Myth

They're very present.

Habits and Hustle
Episode 561: Thais Gibson: The Four-Attachment Styles Explained + Why “Self Sabotage” Is A Myth

But then when you get close to them, they're like, ooh, too much.