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Thais Gibson

πŸ‘€ Speaker
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3105 total appearances

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On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Relationship Expert Thais Gibson: Do You Keep Attracting The Same Emotionally Unavailable Partner? (Use THIS Attachment Reset To Break The Cycle And Choose Better Partners)

Step two.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Relationship Expert Thais Gibson: Do You Keep Attracting The Same Emotionally Unavailable Partner? (Use THIS Attachment Reset To Break The Cycle And Choose Better Partners)

is we need repetition of emotions and imagery because repetition fires and wires neural pathways.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Relationship Expert Thais Gibson: Do You Keep Attracting The Same Emotionally Unavailable Partner? (Use THIS Attachment Reset To Break The Cycle And Choose Better Partners)

Emotions and images do it at the subconscious level.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Relationship Expert Thais Gibson: Do You Keep Attracting The Same Emotionally Unavailable Partner? (Use THIS Attachment Reset To Break The Cycle And Choose Better Partners)

So you're like, how do we find emotions and images?

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Relationship Expert Thais Gibson: Do You Keep Attracting The Same Emotionally Unavailable Partner? (Use THIS Attachment Reset To Break The Cycle And Choose Better Partners)

Well, interestingly, every memory we ever have...

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Relationship Expert Thais Gibson: Do You Keep Attracting The Same Emotionally Unavailable Partner? (Use THIS Attachment Reset To Break The Cycle And Choose Better Partners)

is a container of emotions and imagery.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Relationship Expert Thais Gibson: Do You Keep Attracting The Same Emotionally Unavailable Partner? (Use THIS Attachment Reset To Break The Cycle And Choose Better Partners)

So if you say, okay, what was your favorite childhood memory?

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Relationship Expert Thais Gibson: Do You Keep Attracting The Same Emotionally Unavailable Partner? (Use THIS Attachment Reset To Break The Cycle And Choose Better Partners)

And you were playing at the beach or the ocean and you see the red bucket and you see the waves and your family's faces, like you see the images and we've all seen when people have an exciting experience or a happy memory, they smile or they laugh or their body language changes.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Relationship Expert Thais Gibson: Do You Keep Attracting The Same Emotionally Unavailable Partner? (Use THIS Attachment Reset To Break The Cycle And Choose Better Partners)

And so what we do is we're going to come up with 10 memories to support the new idea that we're trying to drive to the subconscious mind.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Relationship Expert Thais Gibson: Do You Keep Attracting The Same Emotionally Unavailable Partner? (Use THIS Attachment Reset To Break The Cycle And Choose Better Partners)

So for example, I am good enough.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Relationship Expert Thais Gibson: Do You Keep Attracting The Same Emotionally Unavailable Partner? (Use THIS Attachment Reset To Break The Cycle And Choose Better Partners)

10 times I actually felt good enough.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Relationship Expert Thais Gibson: Do You Keep Attracting The Same Emotionally Unavailable Partner? (Use THIS Attachment Reset To Break The Cycle And Choose Better Partners)

And they do not have to be big.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Relationship Expert Thais Gibson: Do You Keep Attracting The Same Emotionally Unavailable Partner? (Use THIS Attachment Reset To Break The Cycle And Choose Better Partners)

It can be things like I was a good friend last week.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Relationship Expert Thais Gibson: Do You Keep Attracting The Same Emotionally Unavailable Partner? (Use THIS Attachment Reset To Break The Cycle And Choose Better Partners)

I had a hard conversation with my spouse two weeks ago, whatever it is.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Relationship Expert Thais Gibson: Do You Keep Attracting The Same Emotionally Unavailable Partner? (Use THIS Attachment Reset To Break The Cycle And Choose Better Partners)

It can be small things, but we need to just elicit a little bit of emotion, that imagery of the memory, and we need 10 of them.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Relationship Expert Thais Gibson: Do You Keep Attracting The Same Emotionally Unavailable Partner? (Use THIS Attachment Reset To Break The Cycle And Choose Better Partners)

Step three, we record ourselves saying it out loud.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Relationship Expert Thais Gibson: Do You Keep Attracting The Same Emotionally Unavailable Partner? (Use THIS Attachment Reset To Break The Cycle And Choose Better Partners)

So ideally, we write them down, we record ourselves saying it into our phone, and then our subconscious mind actually sponges up a lot of information more effectively when we are in a suggestible state, meaning our brain is producing more alpha brainwaves.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Relationship Expert Thais Gibson: Do You Keep Attracting The Same Emotionally Unavailable Partner? (Use THIS Attachment Reset To Break The Cycle And Choose Better Partners)

And so what we get people to do is to sit down.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Relationship Expert Thais Gibson: Do You Keep Attracting The Same Emotionally Unavailable Partner? (Use THIS Attachment Reset To Break The Cycle And Choose Better Partners)

They record themselves saying this out loud.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Relationship Expert Thais Gibson: Do You Keep Attracting The Same Emotionally Unavailable Partner? (Use THIS Attachment Reset To Break The Cycle And Choose Better Partners)

It takes two minutes to listen back.