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Thais Gibson

πŸ‘€ Speaker
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On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Relationship Expert Thais Gibson: Do You Keep Attracting The Same Emotionally Unavailable Partner? (Use THIS Attachment Reset To Break The Cycle And Choose Better Partners)

When I started really diving deep into a lot of this work, I did 13 different certifications and everything from like CB to cognitive behavioral therapy to neurolinguistic programming and hypnosis and just all this stuff.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Relationship Expert Thais Gibson: Do You Keep Attracting The Same Emotionally Unavailable Partner? (Use THIS Attachment Reset To Break The Cycle And Choose Better Partners)

But I was actually like really rooted in a lot of studying all different religions.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Relationship Expert Thais Gibson: Do You Keep Attracting The Same Emotionally Unavailable Partner? (Use THIS Attachment Reset To Break The Cycle And Choose Better Partners)

Like I was really obsessed with spirituality and on sort of a spiritual journey.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Relationship Expert Thais Gibson: Do You Keep Attracting The Same Emotionally Unavailable Partner? (Use THIS Attachment Reset To Break The Cycle And Choose Better Partners)

And I've always loved where those two things intersect.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Relationship Expert Thais Gibson: Do You Keep Attracting The Same Emotionally Unavailable Partner? (Use THIS Attachment Reset To Break The Cycle And Choose Better Partners)

And I remember actually reading years ago one of Eckhart Tolle's books, and it was all about the pain body.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Relationship Expert Thais Gibson: Do You Keep Attracting The Same Emotionally Unavailable Partner? (Use THIS Attachment Reset To Break The Cycle And Choose Better Partners)

And at the time, I was reading these case studies on these individuals, and the researchers were taking individuals and putting them in fMRI scanners.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Relationship Expert Thais Gibson: Do You Keep Attracting The Same Emotionally Unavailable Partner? (Use THIS Attachment Reset To Break The Cycle And Choose Better Partners)

And they were getting them in these fMRI scanners to recall triggering experiences where they felt upset.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Relationship Expert Thais Gibson: Do You Keep Attracting The Same Emotionally Unavailable Partner? (Use THIS Attachment Reset To Break The Cycle And Choose Better Partners)

And then they were watching their brain activity.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Relationship Expert Thais Gibson: Do You Keep Attracting The Same Emotionally Unavailable Partner? (Use THIS Attachment Reset To Break The Cycle And Choose Better Partners)

And what they found is that participants' brain activity, when they would feel triggered, would drain out of the neocortex regions, like the prefrontal cortex region of the brain, and into the reptilian brain.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Relationship Expert Thais Gibson: Do You Keep Attracting The Same Emotionally Unavailable Partner? (Use THIS Attachment Reset To Break The Cycle And Choose Better Partners)

And all this activity would come there.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Relationship Expert Thais Gibson: Do You Keep Attracting The Same Emotionally Unavailable Partner? (Use THIS Attachment Reset To Break The Cycle And Choose Better Partners)

And we've all seen people when they're triggered, they become kind of the reptilian animalistic version of themselves.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Relationship Expert Thais Gibson: Do You Keep Attracting The Same Emotionally Unavailable Partner? (Use THIS Attachment Reset To Break The Cycle And Choose Better Partners)

And so all of a sudden people would be sitting there in this sort of panicked state.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Relationship Expert Thais Gibson: Do You Keep Attracting The Same Emotionally Unavailable Partner? (Use THIS Attachment Reset To Break The Cycle And Choose Better Partners)

And what they would find is that people would start being dysregulated, like they would be in sympathetic nervous system, fight or flight.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Relationship Expert Thais Gibson: Do You Keep Attracting The Same Emotionally Unavailable Partner? (Use THIS Attachment Reset To Break The Cycle And Choose Better Partners)

They would see their heart rate increase or their hair on the back of their neck often stand up.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Relationship Expert Thais Gibson: Do You Keep Attracting The Same Emotionally Unavailable Partner? (Use THIS Attachment Reset To Break The Cycle And Choose Better Partners)

And then what they had participants do is.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Relationship Expert Thais Gibson: Do You Keep Attracting The Same Emotionally Unavailable Partner? (Use THIS Attachment Reset To Break The Cycle And Choose Better Partners)

is they had them practice just witnessing their emotions in their body and labeling the sensations, which is a form of somatic processing.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Relationship Expert Thais Gibson: Do You Keep Attracting The Same Emotionally Unavailable Partner? (Use THIS Attachment Reset To Break The Cycle And Choose Better Partners)

And they had them say, okay, in this experience, instead of being so stuck in the story in their mind, they had them go, oh, I feel anger and anger feels like heat across my chest and down my arms, or I feel anxiety and that feels like butterflies in my stomach and a ball in my throat and a clenching in my jaw.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Relationship Expert Thais Gibson: Do You Keep Attracting The Same Emotionally Unavailable Partner? (Use THIS Attachment Reset To Break The Cycle And Choose Better Partners)

And when they actually had people go through this,

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Relationship Expert Thais Gibson: Do You Keep Attracting The Same Emotionally Unavailable Partner? (Use THIS Attachment Reset To Break The Cycle And Choose Better Partners)

They found that all this brain activity came back online in the neocortex regions of the brain.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Relationship Expert Thais Gibson: Do You Keep Attracting The Same Emotionally Unavailable Partner? (Use THIS Attachment Reset To Break The Cycle And Choose Better Partners)

And it was so interesting because Eckhart Tolle has this thing, oh, the pain body, witness your emotion or, you know, be in witnessing consciousness.