Thais Gibson

Because then you don't have these things that are causing a lot of that negative internal dialogue that will then overpressure you to source from somebody else.

So if somebody feels not good enough, they're going to be like, you better tell me I'm good enough all day, every day.

Yeah.

But if we learn to do the rewiring first is pillar number one.

That makes sense.

And then pillar number two is that we learn to self-source because now we're filling our cup halfway.

And what's really powerful, as soon as we start self-sourcing, we ingrain that in that first 30 days.

Well, now all of a sudden, there's not this crazy amount of pressure.

And now it's really clear to say, this is what I need.

Exactly.

Yes.

Exactly.

Yeah.

And that's where it's really important.

I love that you asked that because what ends up happening far too often, and this is a really crazy part of this, is because our subconscious mind wants to maintain its comfort zone because it equates familiarity to safety and survival so frequently.

people think that they want somebody to give them their need and that's the solution.

And let's take like a typical example.

Let's say somebody has, they're anxiously attached.

They believe they're not good enough.

So now just by that, they have more negative internal dialogue.